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Love, whether it’s healthy proper love or toxic love, is never a walk in the park. There will always be ups and downs no matter who you’re with and that’s something you need to come to terms with before diving into things.

Don’t bother wasting your time and efforts on people who don’t feel the same about you as you do them. Sure, you might want with all your heart for things to work but if they don’t feel the same, things never will. When you find the right person, things will be a lot different and you won’t have to struggle so much.

Your relationship with the right person will be full of growth and care. It will help you become a better person and allow you to chase your dreams. As noted above, yes things will still be hard from time to time and you will still have small arguments and get on one another’s nerves but that’s just life. We are only human and as humans we make mistakes.

In the past, you may have allowed toxic people to hold more power over you than you should have and that’s not something you’ll be bringing forth when you find the right person. The right person won’t fight to have that kind of control over you. He or she will want you to have your own sense of independence and do the things you want to do in this world.

Instead of beating one another down, the struggles you face will be coming from pressures the world places on the two of you. Rather than giving one another the silent treatment you will both be capable of sitting down and talking things out like a healthy couple. This is a huge feat and when it comes to love can make the biggest difference in your connection.

When you’re truly with the right person your worries will change. You won’t be walking on eggshells anymore and you will feel much freer than you ever did in your past relationships. Sure, in the past you felt like things were going to end any minute with people you put too much value into but with the right person that’s not even on your mind.

You know that the two of you are together for a reason and that you’re going to be together for a very long time. The right person will make sure you feel comfortable and that you’re happy in the relationship itself. They will treat your friends and family well, make sure you have all that you need, and be there when no one else will.

Don’t settle in life or in love, you deserve the right person and the right person deserves you. Connections are not as complicated as we make them out to be. Sure, sometimes we may struggle but that doesn’t mean we’re not capable of loving on a level that lasts a lifetime.