Just because things seem normal right now doesn’t think they cannot change overnight. Tomorrow is not promised and the more aware of that you are the better.
The people in your life are not going to be there forever, some of them might outlive you but not all of them will. Your friends, family, and well everyone in your life is going to pass on at some point. Making sure that they’re aware of how important they are to you might not be something you think about right now but I guarantee if you don’t do it now you’ll regret it later.
Someday those people won’t be around, you won’t be able to call them whenever you want and you won’t be able to show up at their houses on your worst days. Now is the time to tell them how important they are and how much you love them, show your true emotions before you miss the chance to. Simply saying I love and appreciate you is a lot easier than it might sound and the more you do it the better you will feel in the end.
Stop taking advantage of the people who care for you and make sure they know through your words as well as your actions that you care for them just as much as they care for you. Life is a lot shorter than it might appear to be at a glance. In the blink of an eye, a whole year might pass and you will have wasted it.
We are energetic beings in this world living human lives and for some of us, that is easier but not for all of us. If you see someone struggling take the time to help them along. If you keep using people or allowing them to fall through the cracks they might leave your life long before they leave this world and that in itself is also not something you can recover from. You should be putting forth the admiration that you seek from others.
Just because everything seems like it’s fine and is going well doesn’t mean the people around you aren’t feeling as if they’re not necessarily crucial to your life. Make sure those people closest to you are aware of how much you need them. Tell them how you truly feel and don’t hold back.
Sure, this might sound a bit extreme but it’s something a lot of people need to read so that they can really work towards something more positive in regards to the people in their lives. Just because it doesn’t seem like things will change so quickly does not mean they won’t. Change is inevitable and we cannot fight it no matter how badly we want to or how hard we try.