When you love someone you’re not going to do things to hurt them. You’re going to be there for them when they need you and help them through the pains this life throws their way.
If the person you’re with is bringing you down and constantly putting his or herself first above all else, you’re not with the right person. Instead of being with someone whose light matches your own, you’ve found someone who is trying to pull you into their darkness which you don’t need to let happen. If you allow the person you love to take advantage of you, you’re going to lose yourself.
Love in itself should not be so complicated. Of course, you will have your ups and downs but at the end of the day you will be there for one another and able to grow together instead of one person merely tagging along with the other while he/she achieves all he/she could have ever dreamed of. If your wants and needs are falling through the cracks, you’re in a relationship that is not worth your time, period.
Relationships are all about give and take, if you’re doing nothing but giving you need to look at what you’re facing and rethink your romantic position. Is the connection you have worth it? We as human beings need to stop obsessing so much over being in relationships. You don’t have to be in love to be happy. You can be single and shine just as bright as everyone else, I assure you of that.
Real love is worth waiting for and will be something you spot quickly when you’ve finally found it. If your partner is selfish and uncaring, they’re only holding you back. Real love is never selfish. It is all about teamwork and partnership. When you’ve found someone who actually loves you they will take your wants and needs into consideration. When some kind of opportunity comes forth instead of diving into things the person who actually loves you will consider how that opportunity will affect not only him/her but also you.
Life and love are hard to deal with, that much is true but both are well worth experiencing on a proper level. Living your life to the fullest with someone who truly loves you is one of the most amazing things you can do in this world. Don’t waste your time on someone who doesn’t deserve your efforts, you might miss out on someone who could and would give you the world.
Stop accepting people and conditions in your world that do not serve any kind of real purpose. If you’re not happy you need to do something about that. You don’t owe anyone anything. This life is yours to live, live it how you see fit.
Just because you care about someone doesn’t mean they care about you. Hold your own and know your truth. Accept the love that feeds your soul not love that leaves you hurting time and time again.