First dates can be filled with excitement and anticipation. They can also be a critical time to assess compatibility and watch out for red flags. Here are ten deal breakers that might signal your first date should also be your last.
Constantly Checking Their Phone
A date who spends more time scrolling through their phone than engaging with you can be a sign of disinterest or poor manners. For those who find themselves on their phones too often, “How to Break Up with Your Phone: The 30-Day Plan to Take Back Your Life” by Catherine Price is an excellent resource.
Being Rude to Service Staff
How your date treats waitstaff or service personnel can be a telling indicator of their true character. For insights into the importance of kindness and empathy, consider reading “The Kindness Challenge: Thirty Days to Improve Any Relationship” by Shaunti Feldhahn.
First impressions matter, and poor hygiene can be a sign of a lack of self-care or respect for others.
Arrogance
Confidence is attractive; arrogance is not. A date who brags incessantly or belittles others may have an inflated ego.
Lack of Punctuality
Being excessively late without a valid reason can show a lack of respect for your time.
Closed-mindedness
If your date is intolerant or dismissive of views different from their own, it can be a red flag for a lack of openness or empathy.
Over-Indulgence in Alcohol
A date who drinks excessively may not be in control of their behavior, leading to uncomfortable situations.
Dominating the Conversation
A one-sided conversation where your date talks at you instead of with you can indicate a lack of interest in your thoughts and feelings.
Inconsistency Between Words and Actions
Watch for discrepancies between what your date says and does. Consistency is key in building trust and respect.
First dates can reveal a lot about a person’s character and compatibility as a potential partner. Being mindful of these deal breakers can help you navigate the dating world more effectively and find a match who respects and values you.
