In life, we tend to settle on a lot of things but relationships are one area in which we should never. If you’re with someone who doesn’t realize how amazing you are or who is bringing you down entirely, they need to hit the road.
You are a special person who deserves to be reminded every single day how truly worthwhile you make everything. You are someone who even in the worst moments deserves to feel loved and you should never forget that. While it might be hard to break through your walls and you might be more closed off than expected, you are worth fighting for.
Sure, you might think that you’re less than everyone else and you might assume that the people around you need more than you’re able to offer but that’s not true. You are more than enough for those who truly matter in this life. No one who is worth spending time with will ever consider you to be short in any area of life. Your heart is full of love and you need to keep in mind that that love should only be offered to someone who will build you up and want to show the world who you truly are.
More often than not we give too much of ourselves to people who only want to see us fail and in the long-run this makes us feel more pain than we should ever have to go through. If you’re with someone who doesn’t accept you for you and love you through all of the ups and downs that life throws towards the two of you, cutting ties is always the best option. Be with someone who appreciates you in the ways you appreciate them, don’t let things be so one-sided that your wellbeing falls through the cracks.
STOP letting the world define who you are and begin working to make yourself known properly. You are whoever you want to be and the people in your life need to reflect that as well. The more positivity you surround yourself with the more you will be able to grow as a person and become further aligned with your highest form and truest self. Sure, it’s never easy to let go of someone you love especially when they are toxic towards you but it is something that has to be done.
You cannot move forward in life if you’re allowing the people in your life to throw you into the past and hold you back from really expressing all that you want to express. Someone who really deserves to be in your life will make sure you know that they are behind you 100 percent in all that you choose to do. They will be your best friend and biggest cheerleader even when they aren’t as crazy about the direction you’re headed. Sure, they will still let you know when something makes them concerned but overall they will provide the support to you that you also offer to them.
Settling in love is not an option, never forget that. You are not a burden in this life and you never will be. If someone is unable to see how truly important you are, they are only wasting your time by being in your life.