It might seem like chasing after the people you think you want or need in your life is the right option for you but is it really? If the people you’re chasing are always bringing you down and are toxic towards you in the first place, why bother chasing them?
I know, in this world it’s easy for us to fall head over heels for people who do nothing but hurt us. We are charmed into thinking they’re not doing anything wrong and when they decide to move on, we do our best to get them back but that’s not what we should be doing. Chasing storms won’t get you anywhere in life. It will only make things worse for you.
The more time you spend going after those who move through life like hurricanes the more unhappy you’re going to end up. You’re trying too hard for those who would never even try in the first place for you. You’re overlooking all the sunshine around you and refusing to see all of the rainbows left in the wake of those dangerous storms.
Life can be crazy and it is full of ups and downs but the more you allow yourself to lose who you are for those who don’t even care about you, the more you’re messing up. You deserve so much more and the sooner you see that the sooner you can get that sunshine back into your life. You aren’t just a toy to be played with, you’re a person and you deserve to be able to live the life you want and move forth in the ways that work best for you.
Nothing is as impossible as you might think it is. You can work hard to become who you’ve always wanted to be and in the end, you will be surrounded by those who truly care, the ones who actually stick with you when times are rough. The people who actually matter will be there for you when no one else will, they will not let you go down on your sinking ship alone.
Stop accepting all the bad things people want to do to you and start protecting yourself. You matter and that is not something you should be arguing over. We all face problems in life and deal with things like drama but the way you handle them says a lot about who you are as a person.
I know, breaking free and doing your own thing is not easy but it is worth it. You can do it, start believing in yourself and see just how much brighter your life becomes. You are more than capable, I believe in you.