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When it comes to learning more about yourself, diving into your subconscious is always a good idea. While you might not be able to figure out what is holding you back at first glance, your true self knows all about it. 

Whether you’re in a relationship and trying to figure out how to move forward without leaving your partner behind or you’re single and unable to find someone that really gets you in the ways you want to be understood, you can benefit from reaching within. Below you will find an image that seems quite hectic. Looking at this image, what do you see first? Which one thing captured your attention before anything else? 

(Credit: Shiraz Wine)

Once you’ve figured out what caught your eye before anything else continue on to see what it has to say about how you love and how you also hold yourself back through it. This will reveal to you your biggest weaknesses in regards and allow you to learn how to move forward without ruining things romantically.

What You See First In This Image Reveals How You’re Being Held Back In Love:

Tangled Man

If you first notice the tangled man, you are the kind of person who catches yourself off guard a lot. You don’t know what you want in life and in love. You are never on the right page and always getting caught up in people who never turn out to be what you thought they were. Until you find yourself, you won’t be able to find love.


If you first noticed the skull, you are someone that spends a lot of time on the emotional side of things. You take a lot of the things that happen around you far too personally, and it sets you up to close things off and makes you more willing to leave those who care the most for you. You don’t know how to properly live your life or how to be honest with the people around you. 


If you first noticed the trees, you’re always looking at things from a perspective of what you do not have rather than what you have. You refuse to let yourself accomplish anything and are always beating yourself down. The lower your self-esteem is, the harder it’s going to be for you to really find someone to love you.


If the fence is what you noticed before anything else, you are a very one-sided person. A lot of the things you think and do revolve around you and no one else. You don’t like to show others affection and are not willing to go the extra mile for the people in your life. This isn’t going to get you anywhere in love.


If you first noticed the boat, you expect too much from yourself and the people around you. You’re always assuming that people have more to offer you than they do and trying to get all you can out of them. Sure, you’re caring, but you don’t take the time to make sure the people who are closest to you are getting what they need from you. You tend to really leave those who matter most in the dark and allow them to fall through the cracks.