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“Loving someone can be hard at times. You risk a lot when you love – your heart and soul, at the least. Love is the most important and most rewarding investment you can make in another person.”

― J.E.B. Spredemann, A Secret of the Heart

Love is a very complicated thing for us all, but it really seems all the signs have their own definitions of what love consists of and how loving someone else should really be carried out. While you might think love means one thing or is one way for you, you also have to realize that not everyone is going to see things the same way. Loving someone else could be about protecting that person to one sign and about providing for them to another.

We are all unique in our own ways but I’ll bet you can agree with the following for your sign and perhaps the signs closest to you. Before you continue on think to yourself what does “loving someone else” is in your eyes? Is it something simple or are there no words for it?


Loving someone else to you is about really committing to one another and them being there for you in all the ways you need them to be. You want your relationship to be all about the good times and not about the stress. You do your best to hide all the issues that come up and make them right in material manners. This sometimes doesn’t work well.


Loving someone else to you is all about comfort. You want to be comfortable and for your partner to be comfortable as well. You need to be able to open up and be yourself around this person and they need to be completely honest and loyal with and to you. You are all about everyone having their needs met and chasing their dreams.


Loving someone else to you is really about compatibility. You need someone in your life who is ‘on your level.’ They have to be able to keep up and if they can you will most likely fall for them quick. This person has to be able to talk to you and listen well.


Loving someone else to you is more or less about connection and time. You want to spend all your time with this person because of the connection you feel. You would do anything for this person and you go out of your way to make sure they are okay and have all that they need.


Loving someone else to you is about being able to take care of them. When you love someone you want to be the person who really makes sure they have all that they could ever want. You are far more generous than you should be and sometimes it is your downfall.


Loving someone else is really about passion when it comes to you. You want to feel something you haven’t felt before. You find someone that makes you feel good and grow your connection into something amazing.


Loving someone else to you is more about companionship than you think. You really look at love as an extension of friendship. This sometimes prevents you from being with people you could build a future with.


Loving someone else to you is all about physical attraction. You have to be able to light a fire within one another. If the physical attraction isn’t there you won’t be down for the relationship at all. Love for you is not as simple as it is for some people, you need that passion otherwise you will not be able to thrive.


Loving someone else in your mind is about being able to find balance. While you are a flighty individual you know that once you find someone you love you will be able to settle down. You are open to it but also want someone that is willing to explore with you. You need to be able to live your own life but also live a life together.


Loving someone else to you is about really feeling loved. Whether you are both struggling or not you need to feel that sense of love for each other. You want to be connected no matter what you are facing. If you don’t feel loved, you won’t be sticking around.


Loving someone else to you is more so about really being able to express your true self with this person. You can open up and show them things that you have never shown to anyone else. You don’t have to be afraid of being shut out and neither do they.


Loving someone else for you is hard but it revolves around romance, that’s for sure. You are one of the most romantic signs. You like to sweep people off of their feet and be swept off of yours. You expect a lot from your partners.

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