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We all want and need very specific things in our relationships. What might work for me might not work for you, and there is nothing wrong with that.

If you’re looking to dive deeper into the world of astrology and love, consider adding The Astrology of Love & Sex: A Modern Compatibility Guide by Annabel Gat to your collection. This book offers an in-depth look at the romantic and sexual compatibility between the signs, providing valuable insights for any zodiac enthusiast.

When it comes to figuring out what you truly need in love looking to the celestial world can do you more good than you might realize in the first place. Below, I am going to go over the things each zodiac sign needs in love that they might overlook for a number of reasons. How many of these seem to line up to you and the people you know?


As an Aries in a relationship, you crave to be matched energetically. You’re always on your feet getting things done, you can’t allow yourself to become stagnant. The more time you spend with someone who is lazy or on a slower pace than you, the worse you will feel.

For the energetic Aries seeking a partner to match their vigor, The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts by Gary Chapman could be a game-changer. Understanding your own love language and that of your partner can create that dynamic synergy you crave.


When it comes to love, you as a Taurus need someone who is willing to open up quickly. You need to know all you possibly can about your partner, and you need to be closer than most other people are willing to get. You have to have someone who is on the same page as you when it comes to the efforts being put forth.

Taurus individuals searching for depth and openness in a relationship might find solace in Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead by Brené Brown. This book encourages vulnerability, a key to the deep connection Taurus yearns for.


While Gemini’s are sometimes pretty hard to love, they are very rewarding partners. They need someone in their lives who is able to keep up with them but also remind them when it is time to slow down or sit back. They are always ready and willing to give so much, which can end up kicking them in the rear depending on the situation. They crave that sense of trust that allows them to remain ‘in check.’

For Geminis who need balance and a reminder to slow down, The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment by Eckhart Tolle could be a valuable resource. It’s a gentle nudge towards mindfulness and living in the moment, which can be beneficial for the often fast-paced Gemini.


Cancer people are always giving their hearts to the people closest to them. They allow the wrong people close and, in the end, hurt themselves for doing-so. They need and truly long for a stable, loving relationship. They need someone who is going to be there for them in the ways they are always there for others.


Leo’s are not going to compromise on much when it comes to love. They know what they think they want, and they don’t settle. That being said, a lot of the time they realize later on that they needed someone who was more willing to check their egos than they were willing to admit. They might get a bit frustrated but at the end of the day, if you’re able to tell the Leo the truth, they will respect you more than you could imagine.


This sign is quite the confusing one and can be a bit of a headache depending on where things are going. If you are a Virgo, you might want someone who is fun and outgoing, but the truth is you crave something much different. You crave someone who is going to force you to let your guard down even when you don’t want to. You are constantly chasing a sense of completion, and that is a problem in a lot of ways.


You as a Libra just want someone who is willing to be truthful towards you. You’re tired of all the lies and crap others tend to throw your way. You need something real and you’re tired of fighting for the lost loves of your past.


Scorpio people are confusing but also quite wonderful partners. They crave a love that is like that of a fairytale. While the love they settle for is a bit different, they try to make everything out to be perfect, even when it isn’t. The more time you spend with the Scorpio, the more you will realize they actually like to be criticized and are only seeking a sense of balance.

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Sagittarius people aren’t as flighty as we would like to make them out to be. While some do move on quickly they also want a stable relationship. This sign is one that craves a lover who is willing to go the extra mile for them and chase them into the new cities they end up running to. They love that kind of dynamic and while they won’t admit it, they live for it.


Capricorn people are very romantic, though they try to hide it. They want a love like what you would see on the big screen. They crave that feeling that everyone talks about and are always wanting to work harder to grow with their partners.


This sign is a very cold sign in comparison to the others. Aquarius people need their time and their space, which is not something many people are willing to offer them. They tend to find themselves in one dead-end relationship after the other because of their lack of trust within the partnerships they choose.


As you may know, Pisces people are very creative. They crave someone to love who is willing to let go of their past and move towards the future without closing themselves off. They want to forget the past and focus on growth in ways that most people are unable to.

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