When it comes to relationships, each of us is flawed in some way. No one is perfect. However, oftentimes, when it comes to our weaknesses, we are blind.
Thankfully, psychologists and scientists such as Sigmund Freud, Carl Jung, and Hermann Rorschach realized long ago that there is a simple way to tap into the human psyche: symbolism. Oftentimes, we don’t even realize the majority of the thoughts that we have, because they take place on a subconscious level. But, when we view imagery, we can tap into those subconscious thoughts quite easily.
While this illusion is to serve as a personality test of sorts, that is the basis upon which it works. With that in mind, take a look at the image? The first thing you notice will show you what your weaknesses are in a relationship.
If you see the bound man
One of the symbols in the image is a man that is bound. If you notice him first, this shows that you are oftentimes at war with yourself. Because of this, your weakness in relationships revolves around conflict. Because you are constantly fighting with yourself, you may find that you end up in more arguments and conflicts with your partner.
If you see the fence
In the middle of the field, there is a fence. If you notice the fence first, then your weakness is staying guarded. You tend to build a wall around yourself because you are afraid of being vulnerable. You want so badly to experience love, but until you let your guard down, you may struggle to get close to anyone.
If you see the boat
If the first thing you notice is the boat that is suspended, then your weakness is your high expectations. You tend to hold high standards for yourself and others, and when others fail to reach your high standards, you get upset with them. It isn’t good to settle, however, you also have to accept that other people have flaws.
If you see the skull
If you notice the skull first, then your weakness is overthinking your relationships. You may often find that you are always worried about the future, and are ridden with anxiety and fear about your relationship. Unfortunately, this can cause you to miss out on the reality of the relationship right in front of you.