When it comes to twin flames you never know what you’re going to get. You might end up with your twin or you both might end up pulling each other’s hearts through the gutter.
The twin flame connection itself consists of several different stages and each one depends on where we are along with our twin on our spiritual paths. If you or your twin still need to achieve more or heal in some ways the connection itself will not be able to bring forth a proper relationship. As sad as it might be, sometimes we are not meant to be with our twins in the lives we’re currently in and that’s a hard truth to face.
Now for those who might be unaware, a twin flame can be described as follows (thelawofattraction.com):
Sometimes discussed in terms of a “mirror soul” or “soul connection”, a twin flame is the other half of your soul. It is theorized that a soul can split into two after ascending to a high frequency. Thereafter, the soul lands in two different bodies.
If you compare a twin flame vs. soulmate, it’s important to note that a soul mate is someone who is made from the same kind of energy as you, but who has never existed infusion with you. So, although soul mate connections are highly significant, an encounter with a twin flame is on another level entirely. Usually, this will lead to romance. However, it can also manifest in the form of an intense friendship.
If you have a twin flame, you are fated to meet this person at some point in your life journey. The two of you will be pulled together like magnets! You will know when you’ve connected with this person because you’ll immediately experience a sense of recognition. Many people describe an uncanny sense of having known their twin flame all their lives. When you encounter the person who carries the other half of your energy, it can create a profound and life-altering sense of wholeness.
Your relationship will naturally be extremely intense because twin flames are mirrors of one another. This person will not only provide a sense of wholeness; they will also elevate your self-knowledge, including knowledge of your flaws. Consequently, there’s a potential for conflict as well as happiness. Rest assured that it is possible to have a happy, healthy relationship with your twin flame. However, this is only possible if you can learn to love yourself, as your twin flame is part of you. This love must be honest and unconditional! Otherwise, a part of you will always be driven to reject your twin flame.
Now, understanding this connection itself will help you to understand why things fall apart time after time with your twin. Sure, the two of you are connected and always will be but you’re not going to be able to be together every single time you manifest on this planet. It just doesn’t work that way.
Know that the separation you are going through with your twin is not your fault or your twin’s fault. The two of you are going through a lot and the more you work to grow apart the closer together you will find yourselves once all is said and done. While you might not be together in this life the more you accomplish here the closer you will be in the next life.
Their baggage is not your baggage, and they need to work through that before the two of you can truly come together in union. While you might try things out for a bit they’re not going to work unless you’re both healed properly and operating on the same level. For more information on this please check out the video below.