The year 2024 is almost here and with that, we can expect a lot of changes. Some of those changes will be good and others bad, but all have their own reasons for coming forth.
For those facing romantic challenges, “The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts” by Gary Chapman offers valuable insights. This book helps readers understand and communicate their emotional needs, fostering stronger, healthier relationships.
Below, I am going to go over the signs that will most likely be suffering big time in the world of love as 2019 comes into play. Sure, some of the people who belong to these signs will get lucky, but most will not. Whether your sign is one of these four or not, you need to really focus on your romantic life, remember how crucial it is to treat others properly and refuse to be used.
Libra – You’re about to lose everything you thought you had.
As a Libra, you are not the kind to open up quickly. You’ve spent a long time getting to know this person, and they have seen you entirely. While you think that you’re going to be in the lives of one another forever, the universe has something else in store for each of you.
Don’t be so quick to assume things. Just because you’re parting ways does not mean that either of you has done something wrong. Sometimes we just end up moving forward in different directions and even though it hurts, we must face the things to come.
If you’re a Libra dealing with the uncertainties of love, “Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find – and Keep – Love” by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller might be a game-changer. It explores attachment styles and provides guidance on forming lasting bonds.
Gemini – You’ve been holding on for too long it is time to let go.
You have been letting toxic people take advantage of you for far longer than you should have. While it might not feel right letting them go, you should. You need to focus on yourself, and you cannot do that if you’re letting other people control you and the way in which you live your life. Sure, you might love being the life of the party and having all eyes on you, but if all of those eyes are only holding you back, what is the point in sticking around?
Virgo – You are going to ruin things, whether you want to admit it or not.
You tend to be quite controlling and can be obsessive with those you love. If you don’t change things soon and work through your insecurities, you are going to ruin the love you have. While the person you’re with or interested in might care for you and want to be in your life, they won’t put up with being ran all over.
The people in your life are not toys, and you shouldn’t treat them as such. Rethink the way you act and apologize when it is needed. Stop being so over the top and let things happen as they are going to.
Cancer – If it’s not worth it, it won’t work out.
If you’re in a relationship that isn’t functioning properly, the energies surrounding 2019 might drive you apart. Only relationships that are worth it will be allowed to move forward regarding this sign. The way you treat one another and how you carry yourselves will be taken into consideration. While you might not think you’re in a bad relationship, you could be.
Sometimes, we think things are better than they are and when that happens we find ourselves way in over our heads. If you’re giving more than you’re taking, you’re not in the right relationship. You deserve someone who is willing to make the same efforts that you are making and really take things to the next level.
For Geminis learning to let go of toxic relationships, “Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself” by Melody Beattie could be a crucial read. This book focuses on breaking free from unhealthy relationship patterns and prioritizing self-care.