As we move forward we are coming to the beginning of October. October for most is a very positive and fun month and things are finally beginning to cool off and ‘spooky’ season is coming full circle.
While some people this year are going to be having a very fun time during the course of this month, not everyone will. Each zodiac sign needs to be on the lookout for specific things and working to reduce the negative things that could be coming forth or trying to hold them back. Sure, some of us are going to be completely oblivious to these things but not all of us will, some of us will be more than capable of working through the toxicity that might be targeting us.
Below I am going to go over some of the things each zodiac sign should keep an eye on as October presses forward. Whether you’re about to be facing a toxic ex or a habit coming back to haunt you, you are capable of working through this. As a celestial being, you are capable of so much more than you could ever imagine.
You need to be aware of the people around you, just because you keep your circle small doesn’t mean that those who do not belong aren’t able to weasel their way in. Someone close to you might have much more negative intentions than you realize and allowing them to remain in your life is only going to cause you problem after problem. If someone isn’t serving you properly, don’t allow them a place in your day to day.
You don’t owe anyone anything and you need to keep that in mind moving forward. Just because there is someone struggling that doesn’t mean you have to stick your neck out for them. You are your own person and you do not have to do anything you’re not comfortable with. Life is too short to spend it wondering what you can do for everyone else, be selfish sometimes.
Your impulsive side might get you in trouble during the course of October if you do not keep yourself in check. You have to keep in mind that not everything you think you want to do is actually something worth doing. Remember to think about your actions and the reactions that might come forth afterward. Not everything is as cut and dry as we might wish it was.
You are far harder on yourself than you should be and October is a month in which that kind of thing will be more intense than usual. You need to work to keep this in check and try your best to make sure that you are comfortable in how you’re moving forward. Life can be put on pause within reason, you don’t have to move through everything in such a fast pace, sometimes stopping to smell the roses is the best thing you can do.
As someone who is surrounded by people, you tend to struggle with figuring out who has good intentions with you. You live a very guarded life and reasonably so but right now you need to be wary of pushing people away. Just because something isn’t playing out how you want it to doesn’t mean that person isn’t trying hard for you. Pick and choose which battles are worth chasing.
You really need to keep an eye out for your own wellbeing. Now is the time to really put your best foot forward and make changes that will benefit you and your loved ones. Treating yourself badly and constantly throwing pity parties are not going to help in any way so why partake? Keep your chin up and see where things go.
You are really going through some rough times at the moment and it might feel like everything is falling apart but that is all in your head. You need to work on separating the things your mind wants you to think with the things that are actually true. Sure, you are a worry-wart but here lately that has increased tenfold and it’s holding you back big time.
Stop allowing your emotional side to win over your logical side. While things are going to be tough as October comes forth, you are going to begin to see that you already have a lot figured out. Stop comparing yourself to others and let yourself take a breather. You are in a place that is helping you grow and moving on right now is not the best option.
You have been making a lot of mistakes lately and it’s not easy to come to terms with that. You might decide that jumping ship is the best means of finding yourself right now but it isn’t. October is going to teach you a lot of you will allow it to. Just hang on and care more about the people you hold power over.
Sure, you might want to slow down and take a break but that doesn’t mean you need to. You’ve been working so hard lately and all of that work will be for nothing if you give up now. Stop waiting around, dive back in and finish this once and for all.
Stop being so selfless and start taking care of yourself. You have to be careful when it comes to your own wellbeing. If you allow your own needs and wants to fall too far behind you will end up stuck with nothing.
Sure, there is a lot of fun to be had but there is a time and place for all of that. Stop allowing yourself to get lost in the moment and really buckle down. Put more effort into the connections that matter to you before it’s too late. There are people working to exit your life and if you don’t want that to happen, you need to make some changes.