While we often think we need someone in our lives to continue moving forth, most of the time that’s not true. We are capable of continuing on without then but our want overshadows other things big time.
When it comes to living your life, you don’t necessarily need to be in love or to be in a relationship but for some reason, we end up thinking that kind of thing is more important than anything else. That being said, at some point in life, you will come to find that the people we think we need the most sometimes do us the most harm, and we don’t actually need them at all. Yes, we want to be with someone who spends their time with us and makes us feel loved but, that in itself is not something that will prevent us from living a full life.
All of this having been noted, that want is important. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be loved and to have someone to talk to when you’re at your worst. Someone who likes to see you happy and is willing to share the best moments in life by your side. You deserve that, honestly but you aren’t just going to croak if you don’t end up finding someone to be with right here and right now.
I feel like this is something we all need to realize and truly understand if we want to be content while single and moving through life. While you might feel bad about previous relationships, diving into something new isn’t going to fill the void left behind. Honestly, giving yourself some time to heal could be what you need to find yourself so that when the right person does come along, you’ll be ready.
At some point, you will meet someone that you want to share your life with who also wants to share their life with you. As you move through life you will grow and the person who wants to be by your side will also want to grow with you. They will treat you as their equal, and they will help you to really understand things more properly.
We cannot change our needs but our wants are something that as time passes need to be maintained which when you think about it makes the connection you have with this person even more amazing when it’s the right person. Wanting the wrong person will cause serious pain and can really break your heart but wanting the right person is the most beautiful thing in the world.
Stop wasting your time wanting to be with someone who doesn’t want you back or want you in the same way. Want someone who shows you the love you deserve and stop wasting your time on those who refuse to do so. Recognize that your wants and needs are different so that when the time comes, you know what it is you’re facing.