While you might want to give your love to someone who cares for you, there are tons of people in this world who will pretend to be what you want all the while hurting you in the long-run. If you never take the time to demand what you deserve, you will never find it in the company you keep.
Stop wasting your time on someone who sees you as nothing more than an option. You deserve to be someone’s one and only. If the person you care the most about refuses to make you a priority in his or her life that’s their loss and you should be working to cut ties and move on.
This world is full of people and wasting your time on someone who won’t ever be what you need is only going to leave you wishing you had moved on sooner once all is said and done. You deserve someone who will be by your side through the ups and downs this world throws your way. Someone who will tell you how important you are every day and really make you able to understand just how amazing you truly are as a person.
You don’t deserve to be let down constantly or shamed for trying to live the life that you want. You deserve happiness and someone who will put the efforts you put into things back into you as well. Why allow someone to hold your heart if they won’t even be bothered to hold your hand.
You can find someone who is worth your time if you really put forth the effort to cut the people out of your life who only wish to do you harm or benefit from being near you. Things are not as complicated as you’re making them out to be. Just because you want to make the most of what you have with this person doesn’t mean you should, especially when what you have with this person is basically nothing.
This life is too short to spend your time and efforts on someone who refuses to do the same for you. You will someday find someone who treats you the way you deserve to be treated and working to find yourself in the meantime is probably your best bet. The more aware you are of what you don’t want in life and in love the more prepared you will be for what is to come in the future.
You will find someone in time, don’t be in too much of a rush. If they don’t make sure you know how important you are they are not the right people for you. The person who deserves to be by your side will choose you over and over again with every day that passes, you will never just be an option to them. This person will make every other love you’ve ever felt seemingly unimportant and nonexistent in the way these feelings progress. Once you begin to see your worth, things will fall into place.