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In this world, we meet a lot of people. Some of those people are meant to be in our lives forever and others well, they’re just not.

Whether you’re facing some kind of karmic connection or just coming across a new soul, you shouldn’t expect everyone in your life to remain there for as long as you might want them to. We are all on our own paths and facing our own issues in this existence. The people who are meant to remain by our sides will do exactly that and everyone else, well they’re just trying to find themselves all the while experiencing things as they move forth.

One of the hardest things that you will ever have to come to terms with in this world is that sometimes the people we want to be with the most won’t want to be with us or won’t want to remain in our lives for as long as we would want them to. Instead of remaining together for years, they are only here for a few moments, and then they’re gone. While losing them can be devastating, it is all part of the plan this universe has laid out for each of us. 

If someone is meant to be in your life, they will remain there and you will be able to rely on them for a lot. They will help push you through the hard parts and be your shoulder to cry on when times get hard. If they’re already making their way out the door, they’re not the right people for you and you need to be willing to accept that.

Rather than obsessing over past lovers or spending your time stressing over connections you have lost perhaps you should be working to truly appreciate the people you have. The people surrounding you right now who have shown you that they will be here for you no matter what this world throws your way, deserve a little thank you from time to time. They are the people who pick you up when you fall down and help you find yourself with someone temporary comes forth and leaves you in a state of losing your purpose. 

The right people might not always be the people you have your heart set on, but they are the people who will care for you and be there when you call. They are the people who above all else value you as a person. These people will hear you out and listen to you rant about how you’re feeling. They will not be afraid to stand by your side when you show them your true self, and they won’t act like you’re wasting their time by sharing your thoughts.

The people who leave you behind are not the people you need to keep on your mind. They are the people who didn’t deserve your time and efforts to begin with and the sooner you see that the better. You have a bright future ahead of you and bringing someone with you that doesn’t want to be there in the first place is a complete waste of your time. 

The people who are meant to be with you are going to hold your hand through all the storms that come your way, and they will even when you feel like you don’t deserve their efforts offer them to you anyways. You can count on them, and they can count on you. The people who abandon you in your time of need were not who they made themselves out to be. 

Don’t let the fact that people leave bring you down. Celebrate those who have remained with you on your travels through this existence and make sure they know how important they are to you. They are the ones who actually care for you.