While you might think that the women in your life will all come back no matter what you do or how you treat them, that won’t always be true. There will be some women who refuse to let you hurt them more than once, and the sooner you realize that the better.
Instead of wasting other people’s time and beating them down all the while, why not actually show the people you care about that you care? Sure, you might have thought she would stick around forever, but there are things even she can’t put up with. When she figures out her worth and that you’re not someone she needs to keep allowing to upset her, you won’t hear from her again.
Most women want a relationship where they feel content and comforted, but for some reason, it doesn’t seem like most men are willing to offer even that much. You move through life as if you can just find someone else to be with in the blink of an eye, but what happens when you find the love of your life, and she walks away? She won’t be easy to get over, and the mistakes you made will be the reason for all of it.
You thought she would stick around despite your wrongdoings because she loved you, but you’re now learning quickly that love is not enough to keep things going. You can’t cheat on her and make her feel worthless, all the while expecting her to be with you through thick and thin. It doesn’t work like that. She isn’t going to be easy to get over for you because she was someone you didn’t want to lose and yet, you did everything that would make you lose her, to begin with.
As a man, you need to remember that the people you hurt add up to a lot throughout the years. You can’t just keep using women as if they are toys. She was someone you saw yourself spending the rest of your life with, and you threw all of that away for what? A few minutes of fun with someone else? Why?
She was so unique, strong, and amazing, but you refused to see that properly until she already had one leg out the door. Losing her is a lesson that you need to let sink in, you should be careful about how you treat others because when someone amazing is in your life the way you treat them matters more than you could ever imagine. Maybe right now you’re still hurting and upset over things, but eventually, you’ll realize that you did her wrong, and you’ll begin treating others better as a result.
You are not perfect, and you have to figure out whom you want to be in this world. The more you hurt others, the less chance of finding love you’re going to have, honestly. You might not see it right now, but in time you’ll understand all the pain you caused will come back to bite you in the rear end. While you want her now, you’ll never find her again.
Don’t hurt the right woman just because you’re unwilling to grow up and settle down. Show her what she deserves, and really stop running from your emotions. The more you fight this, the worse things will end once all is said and done.