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We all think about the day we meet our soulmate and how perfect we hope it will be, but usually, things just don’t work out like we intend for them too. Sometimes when we meet our soulmate, we meet him or her at the wrong time.

Sometimes when we meet our soulmate he or she is already with someone else and not willing to move on from that person. This can be extremely painful but it is not as bad of a thing as it may seem. Sure, it might have you feeling like you’re going to explode but I promise, it’s a chance for you to grow.

Soulmates are not always people we end up spending our lives with. Sometimes they are only in our lives for a short time and perhaps not even in the ways we wish they were at all. You might meet your soulmate only to find that the timing is wrong and at that moment you will grow from the experience.

If that person is really your soulmate once you have both done some work in this world and within you may find your way back to one another when you are both ready. Just because he’s taken now doesn’t mean he will be taken when you’re meant to be together. If it’s supposed to happen, it will happen one way or another. You don’t want to dive into a soulmate relationship when one of you is not ready, being prepared will make all the difference in the world.

You have to trust in the universe and I know that is not as easy as it sounds. The universe knows that you’re feeling beaten down and thrown out for having to let this person pass by but it isn’t all for nothing. There is a bigger picture that you cannot see. Everything will fall into place when you are both where you need to be energetically.

Rushing into things and forcing yourself to fit isn’t going to work and will only promote toxicity. It will make things take twice as long and leave you feeling even more hurt than you would have otherwise. You cannot build a house without the materials needed. If you don’t take the time gathering your tools you won’t be able to do anything when the rain begins to fall.

You might need to do some growing yourself and you might find later in life that you are better for having been apart for however long you were. Everything in life is going to come with some confusion. You’re not always going to be able to have everything you want right when you want it. Waiting makes it feel so much more worth it.