Love has its ups and downs, sure that’s true but when it comes down to the root of things not all love is made the same. Some loves we think are worth it just aren’t and that’s something we have to face.
Just because you care for someone doesn’t mean you need to be with them. Love isn’t enough to make things work, there is so much more that goes into a real relationship and keeping things as they should be. You can care about someone more than anyone else but that doesn’t mean they will stay or that they won’t hurt you.
I know, you’re going to go through periods where you don’t think love exists or you’re scared to choose it but don’t hold back when the real deal is before you. When you find a love that makes you feel at home, don’t run in the other direction because of the things you’ve been through. Your past should not be something that you allow to define you.
You are an amazing person and you deserve to find someone to be with who shows you the care you show them. Your mistakes do not make you less of a person. No one on this planet is perfect, we all face our demons in our own ways.
I hope that when you finally decide to settle down that you find someone who makes you feel like you’re safe in their arms. Someone who is going to be there for you through the good times and the bad times. When you’re at your worst and breaking down, I hope you have someone by your side who will hold your face as you cry into their arms.
We all have insecurities and we all do messed up things but that does not mean we are not worthy of love. In this world, there is someone out there for everyone. That much you should take pride in knowing.
When you finally find someone to love who truly loves you back, don’t hold off and make them wait around until it’s too late. Show them the care they deserve and be the best version of yourself. You might not see it right now but something amazing is heading your way.
Love is not a game to be played on others, it is something that should be cherished like nothing else. I have seen far too many relationships go south because people were not ready for them or one person was not in it for the right reasons. False loves hurt so bad but in the end, they help teach us where we need to move forth as we grow and develop our own sense of self.
Nothing in this life is easy and that includes romance, you will find the person who makes you feel at home someday. Stop wasting away and take things one step at a time. Everything happens for a reason and you’re going to be where you want to be before you know it.