We all come in on different rankings when it comes to just how emotionally intelligent we are. Some people are very emotionally intelligent and others are lacking in the area to a drastic extent.

For those who might not be aware emotional intelligence is basically a person’s ability to control and express their own emotions all the while being able to read those of the people around them. Emotionally intelligent people can face the things others are putting into this world from a very empathic and comforting stance because they are able to look at the bigger picture versus getting worked up over things that have nothing to do with them. Those who are high in emotional intelligence usually end up much more transformative overall in their lives.

Below I am going to go over some of the signs that come with being emotionally intelligent that not everyone is going to have present in their lives. If you can find all of these things within yourself, you are more emotionally intelligent than most other people and probably stand out among those in your life. This kind of thing is a trait that will help you grow in more ways than you could ever imagine.

7 Signs That You’re Much More Emotionally Intelligent Than Those Around You:

1. You are always picking different situations apart.

You never accept things at face value. When something seems wrong or someone seems down, you work to figure out what is happening and make a difference regarding changing things. You are the best at figuring out what needs to be done and doing it.

2. You think about other people’s feelings.

You never waste any time when  it comes to keeping things in check. You always consider how other people will react before you do anything. While at the end of the day you live your own life how you want to, you don’t just go around upsetting others for no reason.

3. You accept your imperfections and own up to your mistakes.

You know that no one on this planet is perfect and are aware that the imperfections within your own body and mind are what make you who you are. You never hesitate to apologize when you’ve done something wrong and are quick to take responsibility when you’ve messed up. You are very true to yourself.

4. You never cease to hold your own.

You don’t let the world beat you down. When you need to be strong, you are strong. While you might get emotional from time to time, you address the things you’re going through and let go of the things that do not serve you properly.

5. You do not shutdown when criticized.

When someone criticizes you, you don’t just shut down you take it as you should and build from it. You know that it doesn’t always come from a place of negativity and are willing to address things that need to be changed. You unlike most are willing to grow.

6. You find motivation within yourself above all else.

You are able to motivate yourself to do and be better in life. Rather than waiting for someone to come along and sweep you off of your feet, you keep yourself in check. This is not something most people are able to do and you should be proud of yourself for it.

7. Your boundaries are placed well and are not compromisable.

You know who you are and where your limits are. You do not let people walk all over you and are not the kind of person who refuses to say ‘no’ when you’re stressed and overwhelmed. You are able to really keep your own well-being in mind.