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When it comes to romance and astrology, there is a lot we can learn about ourselves and others. The more you look to the stars the more you will find and that in itself is truly amazing.

While we all have our own traits and characteristics, most of us are quite true to our zodiac signs and this can either help you grow or hold you back depending on how you look at things and how you face life as it unfolds before you. We all have toxic qualities about ourselves that our zodiac signs can work to highlight, and if we work through those things, we can also work through lots of the problems that come forth in our relationships. That being said, not many people are willing to push themselves to change and that ultimately turns their connections as a whole sour.

Below, I am going to go over each zodiac sign and what the people born under them do to ruin their relationships, whether they realize it or not. If you’re doing the things listed under your sign, perhaps you need to really stop and take a look at yourself and where you’re headed in your current romantic encounters, do you want the same things to keep happening? Becoming aware is the first step to making real changes.


As an Aries, you are very selfish and attention-seeking. This more-so than you tend to be willing to admit. You don’t think about the needs of your partner, and it makes them feel as though they are invisible. Because you throw yourself into your work and don’t know how to slow down, things go toxic quickly when you’re not putting your efforts in the right places. The Power of Now” by Eckhart Tolle – Encourages Aries to be more present in their relationships, shifting focus from self to mutual growth and mindfulness.


As a Taurus, you are extremely stubborn and leave your partners feeling like they have not option but to agree with you and do as you see fit. You get jealous way too easily and are quick to resort to violence in many situations. Being with you in many ways is a constant fight, and after a while it becomes exhausting.


As a Gemini, you can be a little all over the place. When someone wants to settle down, they want a set idea about where the life they share with you is going, and you’re not often capable of providing that. This paired with how much value you place on material items really weighs down your relationships. Sure, things could work, but in many cases, they end up failing big time.


As a Cancer, you’re overall a negative person in general. You tend to keep a pretty down-and-out mindset and unless you work through that your relationships will suffer as a result. Considering you’re also usually quite jealous and suspicious of the people around you, you’re generally not the easiest person to be with.


As a Leo, your arrogance sometimes gets the best of you when it comes to love. You come across as if you are so much better than everyone else, and you’re extremely confident. While confidence is great, your partners tend to feel left behind as a result because of the way you go about things. They end up feeling more like your fans than your partners, and that takes a serious toll on the relationship as a whole.


As a Virgo, you’re far too critical with the people who care the most about you. While you might feel like you’re helping, you are only making things worse. As a lover, you’re supposed to be building your partner up, not breaking him/her down. The more you demand from this person, the further away they’re going to be driven from you.


As a Libra, you do not open up much, if at all. You’re always so closed off and indecisive when it matters the most. Rather than knowing what you want and going for it, you wait for things to be placed before you. All of this, weighed down by your manipulative side, makes romantic encounters hard for you. Daring Greatly” by Brené Brown – Inspires Libras to open up and be more decisive, highlighting the strength in vulnerability and the importance of pursuing what they truly want in a relationship.


As a Scorpio, your possessiveness closes things off big time for you. People don’t like to be treated as if they were objects. They want to be on the same level as you and able to work with you instead of having to fight you tooth and nail every step of the way. Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find – and Keep – Love” by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller – Helps Scorpios understand their possessive tendencies and work towards forming secure, trusting bonds.


As a Sagittarius, you’re very impatient and careless. You don’t pay attention to the wants or needs of the people around you. If it doesn’t benefit you, you want no part in it, and life doesn’t work that way. You move too fast and end up making people feel like they’re way in over their heads. The 5 Love Languages” by Gary Chapman – Aids Sagittarius in recognizing and valuing their partner’s needs, fostering patience and attentiveness in love.


As a Capricorn, you’re too serious and don’t know how to forgive properly. You always bring up the past and never know how to take a joke. It’s like the closer you get with people, the more you hide from them as well. This damns things before they even get a proper start.


As an Aquarius, you are a very inconsistent person, and it leaves the people in your life picking up your slack. In relationships, we don’t want to have to go back and clean up after someone else all the time. We have our own ‘sh!t’ to deal with. You are also quite stubborn and overall unpredictable, which doesn’t make for the best potential partner for anyone.


As a Pisces, you are quite lazy and can be pretty moody. When you’re down about something, you take your frustrations out on the people who care the most about you, and this can drive them away. You seem to always be looking for a way out and when you’re in a bad mood it’s like things will never get better in your mind, and you’re quick to say ‘f%ck it.’