Skip to main content

We all work hard in our own ways throughout our lives but there are moments when we feel we need guidance and when those moments present themselves we need to know that we’re turning to the right places. Advice on things like twin flames, life paths, and so forth isn’t hard to find but knowing that you’re getting the right advice can be quite complex for some.

When it comes to your twin flame journey overall you may want to cut corners and find someone that can help guide you in life, but you shouldn’t just go with the first person you see online or the most expensive because you think they will be ‘the best.’ Real gurus are not going to be as money-hungry as a lot of them seem to be, and they’re also not going to be the ones that are highly publicized, nine times out of ten. Before anything else you should make sure you’re going with someone who clicks with you properly. If someone resonates with your energies as a whole, they are more likely to be a good pick when it comes to looking for guidance.

True teachers are not going to constantly brag about how enlightened they are, and they’re also not going to be without accountability. Those things you should look for big-time when it comes to figuring out who to follow. Real gurus are going to be able to take criticism and aren’t going to charge you an arm and a leg for their time. Don’t get me wrong, they still will charge you for their efforts, but they won’t break the bank.

Real gurus practice the things they say and do not give advice on things they cannot understand. They know at the end of the day we are all connected and that we are all one, they do not treat others as below them in any way. While these things might sound like they should go without saying, sadly a lot of people fall victim to false gurus. They think that when they see someone at the top of their game doing well, they should follow them because they too can end up there but that is not always the case, and we should not ignore that.

If someone is constantly flattering you or saying and doing things to make you feel like you need to come back, they’re most likely a false guru. Real gurus are going to be much more genuine than false ones. They are the kinds of people who actually like helping others, and they don’t have to make things overly flashy to keep people coming back. They help with healing and moving forward and the things they offer actually make a difference in our lives.

At the end of the day, you’re the one who gets to choose who you turn to for the information you need to move forward, and you should be picky in this area. Things advertised as healing lessons that cost hundreds of dollars are not worth your time, and you shouldn’t even bother with them. They can be tempting and they might be something you want to dive into, but they’re not something you SHOULD get into.

You will go through a lot in life and the teacher you follow should be someone you know you can trust and also someone you can be more one on one with, to be honest. While this might not have helped everyone, I hope it reaches some of you. Your journey in this life is going to be all over the place, and you’re going to have to work hard to get where you want to be and to align with your twin flame someday. If you work hard enough, you can accomplish all that you seek to.