If someone is hurting you and bringing you down over and over again, don’t waste your time trying to show them the error of their ways. If they cared about you, your reaction the first time would have been enough to keep them from repeating the things they have.
While some people we come across in this world may seem great at first, the closer we get to them the more clear their true intentions become. They can say that they want to be there for you through the good times and the bad but if they never are, what’s the point? Actions speak louder than words.
If you’re being hurt by someone silence is the best way to get away from them and through your disconnect enact your revenge. They don’t deserve an explanation. You do not owe them anything. They were toxic to you and as long as you are sure of that, nothing else matters.
Sure, being ghosted sucks but if someone is forcing you towards exactly that, don’t feel bad for following through. If someone really wants to be in your life they will go out of their way to make right the wrongs they do. They will apologize and make the changes that need to be made for things to get better.
Whether you’re struggling in a relationship, friendship or something else entirely doesn’t matter. People who care for us will prove it, if they aren’t willing to do that then you should accept the things before you as they are. People who actually care will follow through when they say they’re going to do something. They will make time for you and answer when you call.
Sure, we all have our own things going on in life but as true friends or lovers even, we make time to be there for the people who matter. The people who actually deserve to be in your life will accept you for who you are and never try to force you to be someone you’re not. They will help you grow but not push you towards something you’re unsure of.
If you really want to make a big impact in your own life, cutting ties and moving on without a word is the best route to take. This provides you with the upper hand and in many ways is a good means of taking back your personal power. You deserve a life full of proper connections with people who want to see you doing well.
Your silence will say all that needs to be said, stop wasting your voice on people who refuse to listen in the first place.