If you are wondering why you’re not married yet, you’re asking yourself the wrong questions. Instead of asking yourself why things aren’t moving faster and why you’re not already headed to the wedding, perhaps you should ask whether or not you’re good matches.
There is no need to rush if you’re with the right person things will happen when the time is right. You will both grow in life and in love and when you’re where the two of you need to be you will both make that commitment if it’s what the two of you want. Time is going to reveal so much more than most people are aware of and if they just dive into something too serious they may regret it later.
Below I am going to go over some reasons why it’s important to take your time getting to know your partner better before committing to anything too serious. While you might be infatuated, they might not be who you wish they were. If they’re meant to be by your side, time will reveal all.
6 Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Rush Love:
1. There is nothing wrong with taking things slow.
Taking things slow is good for you. It gives you time to make up your mind properly. While you might have liked someone a lot at first that can change. There is literally nothing wrong with taking things slow, things will happen in time.
2. When you rush you don’t give yourself time to get to know the person.
The more you rush the less you’re taking proper measures to get to know the person you’re with. Don’t dive into a relationship with the first person who shows you attention that you find attractive. You deserve someone who truly knows your worth, period.
3. Rushing things too quickly can sadly push the people you want the most away.
If you dive into something too serious too quickly you’re going to end up overwhelming the person you’re trying to be with. Sure, at first they may be all in but as time passes they could become uninterested or think that things are just moving too quickly. A steady pace is fine but don’t be talking about marriage after just a few short weeks or months.
4. The more you rush the more you skip.
The more you rush things the more you’re skipping. You’re not going through the motions of a proper healthy relationship. You should spend some time together but independently before you decide to move in with one another. Everything has a pace that it should be accomplished at.
5. You might overlook those with bad intentions.
The more excited you are to find love and be with someone in that way the more you may overlook those with bad intentions. Don’t allow yourself to fall head over heels for the first person who says they love you. A lot of bad people in this world like to use the word love against the people in their lives.
6. Love takes time, it doesn’t always just happen in the blink of an eye.
If you’re waiting for that storybook romance, hang it up! That kind of thing just doesn’t happen in real life. You have to let love blossom and sometimes it takes awhile.