There are many people in this world who want to take advantage of the people who love them the most. Just because you care for someone does not mean they care for you, one-sided feelings are more common than you’d think.
When it comes to love you have to consider a person’s actions as well as their words. Just because they say they love you does not mean they do. They can tell you they love you all they want but if their actions don’t match, their intentions are not true.
Someone who truly loves you will not put you through hell. If someone loves you they will take care of you in the ways you take care of them. They will be there for you through the good and bad things’ life throws your way and you won’t have to wonder why they’re always letting you down because they won’t.
Abus!ve and controlling partners might say they love you but the fact that they’re doing these things to you is proof that they don’t. Don’t let someone use your emotions against you. If something is wrong, listen to your mind and get out of the situation before it’s too late.
Some people might say that they are doing things for your own good or only trying to help but if that help isn’t helping, you know what you need to do. They will do their best to keep you under their wings for as long as they can and when you start to pull away they will try to show you what you really want but please keep in mind, it’s all an act.
Those who don’t actually love us show us time after time that they’re only willing to ‘change’ long enough to draw us back in. Once we’re where they want us they revert to their old ways and start tearing us apart over again. You don’t have to be a punching bag and you damn sure don’t need to let someone constantly make you feel invalid.
Your emotions matter and you deserve to be happy. If you’re insecure where you are and walking on eggshells, you need to get out while you still can. Spend some time on your own and cut contact with that toxic person who claimed that he or she loved you.
You can and will find someone someday who will truly love you for who you are but until then, don’t settle. Only accept the love you deserve. Stop letting people who refuse to see you for who you are hold power over your life as a whole.
This life we live is far too short and in the end, you are only going to put up with so much before you find your voice. Things are not always what you want them to be and you can only hold on for so long. Take matters into your own hands and get where you want to be.