If you feel like you’re living your life for other people and unable to do the things that you want, you need some serious change. Instead of holding back and being who other people want you to be, perhaps you should strive to be who you want to be.
The only way to become truly happy is to live the life that you want to live. Stop letting other people make your decisions for you and don’t let the things people say or think get you down. Just because you’re not keeping up with the trends or not willing to dive into things other people are diving into doesn’t mean you’re lame it means you’re individual.
Instead of letting others push you to do things you don’t want to do, fight back and be true to who you are. Stop working so hard to come across as perfect and embrace all that makes you imperfect. Leaving those in the past who want to control you is one of the most powerful things you as a person can do.
Be the woman who is who she wants to be and everything that is important to you in life will begin falling into place. You will be more able to find yourself and capable of understanding things you were not before. You won’t be stuck hiding your truth but instead properly living it.
For so long you’ve kept moving forth, in the same way, stuck walking down a path that was laid out for someone else. Finding your own path and working to move things out of your way will bring you so much closer to where you need to be. Sure, it might be hard and you might be nervous at first but as time passes you will become more and more secure in who you are.
Being willing to do the things that will make you truly happy should not be as much of a struggle as it is. Stop letting the expectations of others hold you back. You don’t owe anyone anything. Do the things you want to do and live the life you want to live.
Time goes quickly and before you know it you won’t have all of these opportunities before you. Tomorrow is not promised and we all should be making the most of the time we are dealing with right now at the moment. If the people around you actually care for you they too will adapt as you do yourself.
They will remain by your side as you find yourself and work to find themselves as well. Everything in this life happens for a reason and if they leave you to fend for yourself on your own, you will be just fine. Be the woman who is willing to break the mold, you are powerful and you can be whoever you want to be.
Don’t let other people control your life – you are the one who should be making the decisions. Don’t keep holding back and letting other people manipulate you into doing things you’d never do otherwise. Life is short and you should be making the most of it while you can, period.