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A lot of people think that when it comes to love, you meet the right person, and you live happily ever after. However, it takes a bit more effort than that.

Actually, when it comes to staying in love, you have to work for it. No matter who you are with, if you have bad relationship habits, it just isn’t going to work. At the end of the day, the couples that make it to 50 or 60 years and beyond are the ones who know that you have to keep working for it, each and every day. Below, I will go over the 9 habits of couples that stay madly in love.

1. They never stop dating each other.

A lot of people think that after you have been with someone for years, the spark just fades. The thing is, if you stop doing the little things that kept that spark afloat, then yes, it will fade. It is your job as a partner to continue trying to find ways to keep that flame alive.

2. They keep the spark alive.

Keeping the spark alive requires work. This means making it a point to try new things together, it means doing the things you know your partner loves. Additionally, it means you need plenty of quality time together.

3. They are always trying to understand each other.

Couples who stay together care about understanding their partner. Even if they do not see things from the same perspective, they try to understand where their partner is coming from.

4. They compromise.

Compromise is everything in a relationship. Sometimes, this will mean that you will have to do something you may not necessarily want and in some cases, your partner will have to bend for you. That is how it works.

5. They fight for the relationship, not to be right.

Just because you fight with your partner does not mean that you are doomed. Actually, fighting is a sign that you care enough to try to fix the problems that are before you. The main difference is that if you are fighting, you shouldn’t be fighting to be right, you should be fighting to make things work.

6. They are best friends.

The couples that last the longest have a friendship first and foremost. They make each other laugh, they support each other, and they work together as a team.

7. They share core values.

When you are in a relationship, it’s so important for you to share similar values and goals. Otherwise, you are going to butt heads and frequently. That is why it is so important to constantly be trying to find common ground with your partner.

8. They know when to admit when they are wrong.

There will be times when you are going to be wrong. There will be times when your partner is wrong. The thing that is most important is that you can be self-aware enough to know when you are wrong and admit it.

9. They are constantly growing together.

Couples who stay together are constantly growing together and working on becoming better as a team. They join efforts and use their strengths and weaknesses to understand how to accomplish their dreams as a team.