The way to a woman’s heart doesn’t have to be as over the top as some people think. If you’re really looking to turn her on, perhaps you should try something a bit more subtle.
Sometimes the smallest things are more than enough to get her going. You don’t have to be ripped and running around shirtless to get her to notice you. You could drive her crazy with your mind in a sense.
Below I am going to go over some of the things men sometimes do that really do turn women on whether they realize it or not. If you’re a man, have you noticed these things, and do you do them? Sure, some of them might sound a bit silly but they all work when it comes to getting things going on some level.
8 ‘Smart’ Things Men Sometimes Do That Can Turn Women On Big Time:
1. Show kindness to people, even those you don’t know.
When we see someone being kind it can really get things going. It makes us want to be around you more and shows us that you’re a really nice guy. Nice guys don’t always finish last.
2. Talk about something that matters.
The more you really engage in talking about things that matter the better. Women love to be with people who actually have opinions about big things. Talk about the world and really dive into topics you might not usually dive into.
3. Care about her emotions and talk about feelings.
She wants her feelings to be taken seriously and if you’re validating her you’re doing things right. Let her know that you care and that you want to make things work properly. Open up and see how far it gets you.
4. Talk about something you’re passionate about.
The more you dive into your passions the better. Women love to see men really fired up about things that bring a spark to their soul. This is true for most everyone and I can personally agree that seeing people talk about things they love is a huge turn on.
5. Share some of the laughter.
Laughing together is always a good thing. This shows that the two of you are on the same page and can share in some of the lighthearted moments. You’d be surprised how quickly a quick giggle can turn into something more. People tend to be a lot more attractive when they’re having a good time.
6. Be willing to communicate properly.
Open up and do so in an honest manner. Stop holding your guard up and pushing her away. The more you communicate the more drawn in she will be.
7. Have a nice vocabulary.
Don’t get me wrong, you don’t have to sound like a scholar but you should be using words that are appropriate for your age and so forth. The way we talk is something that others notice more than you’d think. Your words matter.
8. Work hard and don’t waste her time.
There is nothing a woman loves more than a man who puts his efforts in the right places and isn’t wasting her time. If she sees you doing the things you need to be doing and knows you’re there for the right reasons, she will be even more into you. This goes without saying, or at least it should.