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In past times, it was normal for a man to chase a woman; however, times are changing, and now it is perfectly fine to go after what you want as a woman. With that out of the way, the only thing holding you back is understanding how to show a man that he is desired.

Gone are the days of waiting on a man to show interest. Instead, it is perfectly acceptable to show a man that you are interested in him. While there are several ways to do this, some ways stand above the rest. So, you may be wondering where to begin. Here are six helpful tips.

Come Onto Him

Don’t wait for him to make the first move, unless that is just completely out of your comfort zone. If it’s not, throw on some sexy clothes and show him what you want. You don’t have to make a fool of yourself or beg for it—just show him with your hands, mouth, and body.

Ask Him for Help

A more subtle way to show a man he is wanted is to enlist his help. Men have a hero complex and LOVE to feel like you need them. The easiest way to show this is to ask him for help. Consider reading “The Hero Instinct” by James Bauer to understand how to tap into a man’s natural desire to be helpful and appreciated.

Talk Him Up in Front of Others

When you are around others, talk about him and brag. Brag about the nice things he does or the things he is good at. Talking him up shows that you admire and appreciate him. The Five Love Languages” by Gary Chapman can give you insights into how to express admiration and appreciation effectively.

Subtly Touch Him

When talking, subtly touch him. What I mean by this is that if you graze his arm with your fingertips while you talk, you are sending a message to his subconscious mind that will alert him that you want him. For tips on using body language to your advantage, check out “The Definitive Book of Body Language” by Barbara Pease and Allan Pease.

Tell Him

If you don’t like to beat around the bush, don’t. Be clear, open, and honest about how you feel toward him. He will appreciate the honesty. Daring Greatly” by Brené Brown explores the power of vulnerability and honesty in building strong connections.

Kiss Him Like You Mean It

A kiss can go a lot further than any words you could use. Don’t overthink it; allow your lips to show him how you feel. Enhance your kissing experience with this highly rated lip balm that keeps your lips soft and kissable.

By incorporating these tips, you can effectively show a man that you are interested and desired. It’s all about confidence, honesty, and genuine connection.

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