When it comes to love for some reason we don’t communicate as properly as we should. We tend to keep things to ourselves that we should be sharing and because of that lots of our relationships fail.
Being in love isn’t easy and it requires a lot more effort than people tend to realize. You have to be willing to give and take, not one or the other. Below I am going to go over some questions you should be asking your partner and things you should be talking about. If you’re shutting each other out and not on the same page with these things, your relationship won’t last long.
4 Questions You Should Ask Your Partner:
1. How do we move forward from here?
If something bad happens in the relationship apologizing and trying to force the other person to forget isn’t going to work. You have to sit down and talk things out. Figuring out what needs to be done in order the help keep things going is crucial.
2. What can I do to make things better?
If something is bothering your partner and you’re not sure how to make things better, ask him or her. This might not sound that hard but it sometimes can be. You never know what needs to be done until you take the time to ask. Don’t assume, make sure.
3. Is there anything that’s bothering you?
Asking your partner something this specific can really help you understand what is going on in the relationship. Addressing it in this manner opens up room for your partner to voice his or her concerns. When you feel like something is off, ask about it. Don’t be too afraid to talk to the person you love.
4. Can you explain so that I better understand?
If you don’t understand something ask your partner to explain. You don’t want to be left in the dark. You’re already discussing things, make sure you’re both on the same page leaving out. You should feel sure of the things you’re taking away from the conversation.