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We tend to get into relationships with people that we think are our soulmates only to figure out later that we were mistaken. While there is nothing wrong with being with someone who isn’t your soulmate if you’re looking for your soulmate it can feel like a major setback.

If you are trying to figure out whether or not your partner or current lover is your soulmate then you really need to evaluate your relationship. The following signs will help you figure out whether or not this person is your soulmate and really show you what you need to see whether that is a good thing or a bad thing. Sure, it might sound a bit odd the more you look for the more you will find.

Soulmates, for anyone who might be confused, are not going to be exactly the same as we are personality wise but there will be some similarities. A soulmate is someone who connects with us on a deeper level and really befriends our very essence. This is someone who will feel different from anyone else.

17 Signs Your Soulmate Is Your Current Lover:

1. You don’t have to try and impress one another.

You both love each other as you are. You see your partner for who he or she is and they do the same in regards to you. It’s like the two of you just get each other and impressing one another isn’t important.

2. You are headed in the same direction.

You are both headed in the same direction. You both get along with one another and have the same game plan for the future. As time passes you grow together no apart.

3. You just click.

You just click with one another. You both get along so well. Right off the bat, you seemed to have a deep connection that you haven’t had with anyone else.

4. You can trust this person more-so than anyone else.

You trust this person more than you do anyone else. The more time you spend with one another the more you gravitate towards one another. This person is always honest and open with you.

5. This person cares about your emotions.

This person does not cast your emotions off. He or she takes your feelings into considerations always and doesn’t do anything to make you feel bad. While sometimes you get into arguments you work through them in a more positive manner than others do.

6. You love seeing one another succeed.

This person is always building you up and you are always pushing each other to be the best possible versions of yourselves. You love seeing each other reach goals and succeed. The more you succeed the more proud this person becomes.

7. You can basically read each other’s minds.

This person knows what you’re thinking without you having to say a word. You both are able to basically read one another’s minds. Just a mere look in his or her eyes is enough to send a message that needs to be sent.

8. You don’t fight with one another, you talk things out.

You don’t fight in the ways most couples do. You normally sit down and talk things out. Working through the issues within your relationship without actually screaming at one another is something many people wish they could accomplish.

9. This person is able to calm you without much effort.

You feel safe with this person. He or she is able to calm you down when you are at your most worked up. He or she doesn’t have to try hard to make you feel better, it just comes naturally to him or her.

10. You always forgive one another.

When you are both getting upset with one another or when one of you makes a mistake you work through it. You are both willing to apologize when an apology is needed. This is something most people struggle with.

11. This person makes you feel complete.

You feel like this person completes you. This person makes you feel like you are the only other person in the world. You feel so important and loved, that is extremely important when it comes to being with someone for a long period of time.

12. You are able to respect one another’s differences.

You are able to respect one another and the differences that you have. You don’t use these things against one another or anything like that. It’s like you both get along in ways that most other people just cannot.

13. You complement each other’s flaws.

You love the things that make this person unique. His or her flaws are not flaws in your eyes. While you might have a big nose and feel insecure about it your partner will always tell you how much he or she loves it. Flaws are not flaws when you’re with your soulmate.

14. You came into one another’s lives unexpectedly.

You met one another at a point in your lives where you just wouldn’t have expected it. You found each other and were drawn in without a second thought. It’s like things happened overnight and you instantly felt a connection.

15. You feel that you belong with one another.

You really feel like you belong with this person. You could not imagine your life without him or her. You are both just so good together.

16. You love being with this person.

You like this person’s company. Being around each other is always fun and full of experience. There is never a dull moment.

17. This person makes you feel understood.

You feel like this person really understands you. You don’t feel out of place when he or she is around and you feel free to say whatever you want. You’ve never gotten along with someone this well before.

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