Sometimes in love, it is a bit harder to tell whether or not someone actually cares than it should be. When someone really cares about you they do a lot of things differently.
While most relationships will be duds at some point you will meet the guy who puts everyone else to shame. This guy will make you feel like nothing else could ever matter. Relationships like this are not as common as they should be. If he does the things below he really does give a shit about you.
12 Things That Prove He Actually Gives A Shit About You:
1. He misses you when you are not around.
When you are apart he misses you. He texts you to let you know that you are on his mind and he does sweet things to remind you that you are important. Sure, personal space is fine but that doesn’t mean a sweet message should not be sent from time to time.
2. He isn’t afraid to show you off.
He wants to hold your hand in public and kiss you in the grocery store. He wants to show everyone how proud he is that you are in his life. You matter to him.
3. He cares when you are feeling down.
He is not going to give you the cold shoulder when you are crying. He is there for you one hundred percent. You have a real partner in this one.
4. He won’t hesitate to stand up for you.
He is not going to sit by and let anyone say anything bad about you. You are important and he wants the world to know how amazing you are. He respects you and expects others to do so as well.
5. He goes out of his way to make you smile.
He will bring you flowers when you are down and make cheesy jokes just to get a smirk. He wants you to be happy. If he can brighten your day it will also brighten his own.
6. He makes you feel pretty.
He always compliments you and tells others how great you are. He wants you to feel just as beautiful as he believes you are. If you could see yourself through his eyes you would be in awe. While some men may show attention to other women, he has eyes only for you.
He pushes you to grow and be who you want to be. He wants you to chase your dreams and reach your goals. He is all about cheering you on.
He loves all of you. He is just as excited about your flaws as he is your perfect points. He shows off all of you, even the parts you cannot stand.
9. He texts back without making you wait forever.
He is not going to ghost you regardless of how he is feeling. If he doesn’t want to talk he will let you know what is going on. You do not have to sit by the phone worried with this one.
10. You can be yourself around him.
He shows you who he truly is and you show him who you truly are. He is free to be himself and you are free to be yourself. There is no hiding from one another.
11. He doesn’t forget to call you back.
He calls you back when he says he will. He is not going to leave you hanging. You are always on his mind.
You don’t have to go without a label. He wants you and only you. You can trust him and know that he feels the way you feel.
He makes you feel loved and he will be able to really bring back your faith in relationships. Sure, there are a lot of men who don’t give a shit but there are a few who will, they are worth waiting for.
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