Love is complicated, there’s no doubt about that. And at the beginning of a relationship, it can be difficult for people to be upfront with their emotions.
Because of this, men who are falling in love or just realizing they are in love may not be ready to say how they feel. Unfortunately, it can be scary to navigate through a relationship’s beginning phases when you are uncertain if they have feelings for you too.
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1. He asks about your life, a lot.
He is always asking about you and what’s going on in your life. He shows a genuine interest in you and who you are and the things happening around you. And his curiosity comes from a real place, not just him making small talk.
2. He goes out of his way to help you.
When you need help doing something, even when you don’t ask about it, he makes sure to help you. A lot of times, you may see that it’s not easy for him to do the things he does for you, but he still helps you nonetheless.
3. You can sense it.
You have a feeling that he cares. You don’t know why or what it is, but you can feel it in your core.
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4. He goes out of his way to make you smile.
When you are having a bad day, he tries to make you happy. He loves making you smile, and he loves bringing you joy. You can always count on him to lift your mood.
5. He shares the little things with you.
He doesn’t hold back in letting you see the real him. He shares his innermost thoughts and feelings and shares his favorite songs with you. He’s like an open book when it comes to him sharing the little things with you.
6. He gives you forehead kisses.
He doesn’t just kiss you with lust, he kisses you as he means it. And on many occasions, he leans down and kisses you gently on your forehead. Forehead kisses are much different than regular kisses, they are kisses that come from the soul.
7. He can’t stop looking at you.
Sometimes, you look up and he’s looking at you. You notice he looks at you a lot. And not in a creepy way, but from a place of infatuation.
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8. He mentions his future with you in it.
When he brings up his future, you are in it. He is always saying things about plans and ideas he has, and he always includes you. When a man includes you in his future, it’s because he sees you around in it. And almost always, that means he loves you.
9. He accepts you for who you are.
He doesn’t put you down, disrespect you, or expect you to change. He loves you just the way you are, even when you don’t love yourself.
10. He’s transparent with you.
You don’t ever have to worry about him lying. He is always telling you about his day, and when he says he will do something, he does it. He is completely transparent and honest with you.
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11. He is straightforward about his intentions.
And he doesn’t make you push him to explain where he stands. He has told you what he wants from the relationship and his intentions. You don’t have to try to read him, because he is straightforward about what’s going on in his mind.
12. He remembers the little things.
When you mention your favorite book or song, he remembers. That time you told him your favorite combo at your local eatery, he remembered and picked that up for you as a surprise. He’s always amazing you with the little things he notices and remembers about you.