The dating world is not the easiest to navigate, especially if you’ve had bad experiences in the past that caused you to doubt yourself. And even if you don’t doubt yourself, people can be hard to read.
Part of finding and keeping a relationship is knowing and understanding that the person you are dating or talking to shares the same interest in you. Until you are certain of that, it can be difficult to move forward. When you begin to develop a connection with a man, it can feel like literal butterflies in your heart and stomach. And when that feeling emerges, it’s normal to wonder, “Does he feel the same way?”
If you are wondering where a man stands with you and if he feels the same attachment, here are 12 signs a man is emotionally attached.
1. He is comfortable around you.
When he is around you, he isn’t afraid to be himself. He talks to you about things, and you see a side of him that no one else does, in a good way.
2. He celebrates good news with you.
When he has good news or when you have good news, he celebrates with you. He supports and encourages you and leans on you for support and encouragement. You can feel a real bond between the two of you.
3. He makes it a point to spend time with you.
Rather than blowing you off, he makes it a point to spend time with you. And not just hanging out, he focuses his full attention on you when you are around.
4. He shares his feelings with you.
When he is upset, you know it and you know why. When he is happy, he tells you. He shares his feelings with you. While he may not gush on and on about them, he lets you in.
5. He makes plans to spend time with you.
You don’t have to initiate every date and hang out. Instead, he makes plans or asks you to do things, and considers your opinions and needs when doing so. And he is understanding when you need space.
6. He makes comments about your future together.
When he talks, you hear him mention plans or things he wants to do in the future. He considers you a part of his future, even if he doesn’t directly say it.
7. He checks on you.
From time to time, he checks in for no reason. Not because he wants anything, or is just trying to appease you, but because he genuinely wants to know how you are and how you are doing.
8. He is considerate about your feelings.
When you explain how you feel, he is considerate about how you feel. He doesn’t run over you or disrespect you.
9. He brags about you to his friends and family.
You hear him talking to his friends and family about you, and saying nice things. And when you meet new friends and family, they say “He’s told you so much about you! I’m so excited to meet you!”
10. He remembers the small things.
He goes out of his way to do small things for you and remembers the things you like, even small things that you wouldn’t think he would remember. He makes it a point to do things that make you happy.
11. He is vulnerable with you.
When he is around you, he isn’t afraid to be vulnerable. He opens up about his feelings, his past, and what he wants in the future.
12. He considers your opinion.
Before he makes any major decisions or makes other plans, he asks you how you feel. At times, it’s as though he just knows how you feel and is in tune with you.