If you have never been in a relationship or have a family member who is a narcissist, you are extremely lucky. A narcissist has one of the most toxic personalities a person can have.
Therefore, it is only normal that they can only cause untold damage and hurt the people around them. Moreover, they only know how to focus on their personal needs and desires. They will never concern themselves with what other people like.
In fact, a narcissist will always try to manipulate their way out of any situation. Here are some of the examples why a person like that is incapable of caring about the people around them, let alone show love and compassion.
1. Never Apologize
A narcissist will never apologize or acknowledge that they’ve done something wrong. In fact, their instinct forces them to make you believe that you are crazy. This way you will absorb all the blame.
Moreover, a narcissist is always on the defensive and will redirect the conversation. Making you the guilty one. Remember, a narcissist never accepts any wrongdoing. In their mind, they are absolutely perfect.
2. Doesn’t Provide Emotional Support
What a narcissist does best is making other people themselves. So, they don’t know how to provide any emotional support. In fact, you shouldn’t even expect any emotion from a narcissist.
A narcissist loves to control people and make them feel powerless. Therefore, they can never know how to give any emotional support.
3. Love you the same way you love them.
A true narcissist only loves himself. They will only ‘love’ you if it can benefit them in any way. That form of love revolves around how you make them feel or what you can provide for them.
Therefore, if you make a narcissist feel beautiful and loved, they will expect you to completely devote yourself to the relationship and focus solely on the narcissist’s selfishness. In other words, you can’t expect a narcissist to love you the same way you love them.