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Wearing all black is so much more than just a fashion choice. This type of wardrobe tends to appeal to a certain type of person, and while for some it may just be a coincidence, for others, it’s a lifestyle.

A woman who wears all black is not to be messed with. There is a reason she chose that color scheme, and it isn’t warm and fuzzy. With that being said, it doesn’t mean she is a bad person either, so let’s go ahead and throw those assumptions out the window. It goes a lot deeper than most would realize. So let’s get started.

Here are 10 reasons why a woman who wears black is not to be messed with.

1. They embrace the darkness.

Women who wear all black are not afraid of the dark. On the contrary, she embraces it. She accepts it as a part of who she is- however, for those who have not accepted their shadows-her presence can be quite unnerving.

2. She is a survivor.

When you see a woman in all black, you can go ahead and assume she has been places. She has seen the darkest corners of life and came back (mostly) unscathed. She knows who she is, and she knows she can overcome anything. And to most-that is pretty scary.

3. There is sadness about her.

Deep down to her bones, there is a sadness about her. She has spent her life in some pretty dark places, and while she carries herself high, deep down into her core, she is sad. But a woman with deep sadness is never to be messed with.

4. She is smooth, efficient, and tedious. (She takes no prisoners.)

She handles tasks smoothly and efficiently. She is precise and has all of her ducks in a row.

5. She doesn’t care about fitting in.

When it comes to being trendy and fitting in, she couldn’t care less. She is against ‘fitting in’ and worries less about fitting in and more about being who she truly is. And her authenticity can be unnerving to those who aren’t on the same level.

6. She values self-empowerment.

She knows that she is the master of her universe. Furthermore, she isn’t afraid of change or of starting over. if you choose to complain to her or to play the victim, you will very likely have your a$$ handed to you, because she does not believe that we are not in control of our destiny.

7. She can see right through your bullshit.

She can walk into a room and see everyone’s demons before they even speak. So, before you try to pretend to be someone you are not, remember, she can see right through you. She may not ever call you out, but I assure you that if you do something shady to her-she will find out, and her vengeance is not something you want to endure.

8. She is both elegant and intimidating.

Her style of both elegant and intimidating. While she carries herself with grace, there is also a fierceness about her that is not to be reckoned with.

9. She doesn’t care if you don’t like her.

She is not trying to win your approval. Not only that, but she couldn’t care less about what you think and if you like her. Instead, she only cares about focusing on her life and journey. If you don’t accept her, I promise you, it isn’t going to cause her to lose any sleep.

10. She is more about action than speaking.

To her, words are meaningless. What matters is your actions. And she pays attention to how people act in contrast to what they say. That’s half of the reason she can so easily see through your bullshit.