Stop wasting your time with guys who want to have their cake and eat it too. You deserve a man who will love you and only you and be intimate with you and only you.
Instead of forgiving him each time he runs around with any Jane Doe he can find, hold your own and put your foot down. While in this day and age it might seem like all men are doing this and that as women it’s something you just have to deal with but that is nowhere near the truth. If you want to be happy, stop allowing these guys to run around on you day in and day out.
When you forgive them for this kind of behavior you’re only reassuring them that you will stay no matter what they do to you. Some of them will continue to do the things they were doing and try a little harder not to get caught but others will become more willing to cheat out in the open without caring how it will make you feel. They will think that they have broken you down enough that whether you are aware of their cheating or not you will remain by their sides.
You deserve so much better than that. You deserve someone who will treat you like a queen and be faithful to you. If you’re ready to settle down and put a proper label on things, don’t waste your time with someone who is only playing with your emotions and using you to get what he wants.
If he is being unfaithful to you, he doesn’t value you as he should. He doesn’t realize how special you are, and he sure as hell should not be in your life any longer. A real man will value you and your time. He will make sure you’re as happy as you should be and that you know you can trust him above all else.
Stop wasting your time with someone who will never be there when you need him and embrace the love someone else may have to offer. When you begin to see what you deserve you learn what not to put up with in life and in love. Don’t be the kind of person who lets others crush their hearts for fun.
You are so much stronger than you think and all of this heartache is not worth it. Stop letting these immature guys hold power over you and be single for a while if that’s what you need to do. In time, you will find a real man who is worth your time. Life is too short to spend it wasting away with someone who is thinking about everyone but you.