In this day and age, we tend to break lots of things. Some of these things we are completely unaware of and others we completely shatter on purpose.
When it comes to life and love there are some things we really should not be playing around with and yet far too often exactly that happens. We should all be working to protect one another and care for each other as best we can but that rarely ever actually happens. Sure, the world we live in right now is full of empaths but that doesn’t keep us from making mistakes.
Below I am going to go over some of the things that we as human beings who are meant for so much more should be working to protect or carry out/follow through with rather than wasting or damaging without a second thought. We should all be more careful in regard to these things because once something is done, it cannot be taken back.
5 Things You Should Never Break:
1. You should never break yourself for other people.
Sadly far too often in this world, we allow ourselves to break for the sake of others. This should not be happening. You should be putting your own wellbeing above that of the people in your life. If you don’t keep yourself together, how are you going to be able to take care of anyone else?
2. You should never break trust.
Trust is one of those things that once it’s broken it’s almost impossible to repair. The more you mess up the deeper the hole becomes that you find yourself in. Once all is said and done, nothing will ever be the same.
3. You should never break your own boundaries or those of others.
When it comes to being true to yourself and living the life you want, boundaries are needed. You should never compromise your own boundaries or try to cross those of others. Boundaries are in place for a reason and that should be something we always keep in mind.
4. You should never break someone’s heart.
Breaking hearts is not something that we should ever go out of our way to do. It is something that leaves a person hurting in ways that no one ever wants to have to face. You have most likely had your heart broken before and forcing someone else to go through that as well is inexcusable. Sure, we cannot always prevent it, but we can work to try and not lead others on and do our best to cut ties properly when they need to be cut.
5. You should never break promises.
While sometimes we have to break promises overall we should never be making them in the first place. If there is any chance that you’re not going to follow through, don’t make the promise. It’s a lot easier to just say no or do not agree to something, to begin with than it is to explain things later. If you’re not going to follow through, don’t bother to get someone’s hopes up, point-blank.
Sources:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/your-wise-brain/201710/are-you-taking-care-yourself
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/rediscovering-love/201706/when-promises-become-lies