When we are in a real relationship we make our partner the most important person in our lives. When someone truly wants to be by our sides and build a life with us they will always go out of their way to make sure we know how important we are to them.
Living life with another person so close to you isn’t as easy as it might sound. There will be serious ups and downs as well as some of the most confusing situations, period. If you are a woman who feels like your significant other just isn’t putting as much effort forth as he should be, you need to make sure to change that. When someone wants to make you feel happy, they will make sure it happens whether it takes a lot of time or happens overnight.
A real man isn’t going to waste your time or leave you walking on eggshells every time you see him. He isn’t going to make you wait for him to call back or show up for your dates. He isn’t going to leave you wondering what you did wrong or whether things are ‘okay’ or not. He as your lover will go out of his way to ensure that everything between the two of you is great.
He will know your favorite movies, who your best friend is, and how close you are to your family. He won’t make you feel like you have to give up your independence to be with him, and he damn sure won’t ever ask you to choose him over your dreams. He will stick by your side through all of the things this world throws your way and make sure you know that he is your biggest fan.
“Manhood is defined and decided by the ability to nurture and to protect, by the capability to provide and to sustain.”
― C. JoyBell C.
Real men won’t give you any reason to question their emotions or feelings for you and will be sure to rediscover the intimate side of your relationship every time you meet. He isn’t going to drag you down but instead will build you up all the while ensuring that you feel safe and secure by his side. To him, you will always come first and never last.
Don’t settle for a love that doesn’t deserve you at all. Find someone who will make you feel as cared for as you do them. He will take the time to earn your trust and explore this world with you as each day passes.