When you think “alpha woman” what comes to mind? A strong, beautiful, powerful woman? Well, not all alpha women are that noticeable in the beginning.
Are you an alpha woman? Look for the signs below. If you’re looking to cultivate some of these qualities, “Lean In: Women, Work, and the Will to Lead” by Sheryl Sandberg provides great insights.
12 Ways Alpha Females Stand Out From Everyone Else
1. She is well-balanced.
She is not one of those women who struggle to maintain a balance between their work and personal lives. She knows how important this is and does not lose sight of it. She is very well put together. To enhance this balance, books like “The One Thing: The Surprisingly Simple Truth Behind Extraordinary Results” by Gary Keller and Jay Papasan can be beneficial.
2. She can read people and situations.
She knows when something is going to benefit her and can also identify when someone has harmful intentions. She knows to walk away from something that is about to take a turn for the worse and saves herself a whole lot of stress.
3. She does not try to compete with other women.
She knows who she is and is not easily made insecure by others. She knows what other people expect of her and does not allow herself to get swept up in it all. She is comfortable in her own skin and does not look to other women for verification of this. A recommended read in this area is “The Art of Community: Seven Principles for Belonging” by Charles Vogl.
4. She takes constructive criticism well.
She is not afraid to hear the truth, no matter how hard it is to hear. No matter how much she achieves, she knows there will always be room for improvement and will continue to improve. She has no problem accepting criticism and solves the issue directly from the source.
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5. She tells it like it is.
People are drawn to her because they know she will always tell the truth. She doesn’t waste time telling others what she thinks they want to hear. She does not sugarcoat anything, no matter the situation. If you’re looking to communicate more effectively and honestly, consider “Radical Candor: Be a Kick-Ass Boss Without Losing Your Humanity” by Kim Scott.
6. Her actions seem to be effortless.
She makes hard work look easy. She appears to have everything all put together and inspires others to do so as well. She remains on point whether those around her are falling apart or not.
7. She has a natural confidence.
This is something most women lack. She has a well-earned confidence that follows her no matter where she goes. She knows she has the ability to get things done properly and attracts positivity wherever she steps. She is able to remain confident without becoming cocky.
8. She is a natural leader.
Others will follow her without questioning it. She is the queen bee regardless of the amount of effort she puts into things. To further hone leadership skills, the book “Dare to Lead: Brave Work. Tough Conversations. Whole Hearts.” by Brené Brown can be a great resource.
9. She makes her own money and relies on no one else.
She does things her way and always provides for herself. She does not need anyone to pay her bills or buy her nice things. She has that covered all on her own.
10. She is focused on herself and the things she wants in life.
Regardless of what it is, she wants, she is focused. She will achieve her goals no matter what it takes. There is no getting in her way. If you want to sharpen your focus and drive, “Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us” by Daniel H. Pink is a compelling read.
11. She is respected.
People respect her, which is to be expected. She deserves it and has worked hard for it.
12. She welcomes change with open arms.
An alpha woman is not afraid of change. She is open to it and embraces it in any form that it comes. She does not cower in fear, you will not see her afraid.
Alpha women are truly amazing and should be respected. Sure, their traits do not always immediately come into plain view. However, finding an alpha woman is quite easy and can be done after just a short conversation with one. Are you or do you know an alpha woman?
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