Falling in love is one of the most beautiful experiences in the world. And while it might seem like we have little control over love and who falls in love with us, we actually can encourage someone to fall for us.
It may seem daunting to get the attention of another. Deep down, you may have your sights set on a man, but when it comes down to it, you just can’t figure out how to show him that you are the one for him. Thankfully, psychology can be really helpful for a number of things, including love and connection. With the use of these tips, you can easily get someone to fall in love with you, as long as they are already emotionally open to falling in love. Here are 10 ways to make a man fall in love with you.
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1. Keep eye contact.
There is a fine line between a little bit of eye contact and creepy, so don’t keep it going for too long. But, eye contact increases the likelihood of falling in love. Arthur Aron, a ground-breaking social psychologist, and researcher say that two of the biggest factors in regard to falling in love are eye contact and genuine interest. And if you’ve ever been in love, you know that eye contact is necessary.
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2. Use his name.
Hearing our names has a magical effect. Not only does it boost your ego, but it also activates your brain on an intimate level, which places you on a more intimate level with the person you are interested in.
3. Mirror him.
Mirroring is something we do on a psychological level anyways, but when you are conscious of this you can use this to your advantage. Basically, like attracts like. Even though there is an old adage about opposites attracting, we also tend to be attracted to people who are similar to us. So, if you notice similarities, make sure they do too.
4. Casually touch him.
Studies have shown that when someone casually touches us when trying to get our attention, they are far more likely to succeed if they casually touch you. So, if you are trying to get a man’s attention, the best thing you can do is casually touch them during the conversation. Don’t be weird, just brush their arm or shoulder.
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5. Don’t be afraid to be vulnerable.
Brene Brown, a social psychologist, talks at length about how the vulnerability is fundamental to true connection. And when you think about it, she is right. It might be hard to be vulnerable with people, but showing your flaws and opening up to someone you like is a great way to let them in and see the real you.
6. Emphasize shared values.
A researcher named Theodore Newcomb explained in a study that we tend to be more attracted to people who are similar to us. This is known as the similarity-attraction effect and has been proven through research. So, if you have shared values or interests, bring them up.
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7. Smile.
People don’t remember everything you say, but they totally remember how you make them feel. So, if all else fails, smile and be a warm presence.
8. Tell them a secret.
In a study, two groups of participants were made. One group stuck to surface-level small talk, and the other asked more personal questions. Out of the two groups, the one that was tasked with more personal questions reported feeling closer to the other participants. This is because they formed a bond by telling the others more intimate details about themselves.
9. Have a sense of humor.
When asked, most people report that a sense of humor is important for finding love. So, if you want someone to fall for you, have a sense of humor. It’s nearly a prerequisite for finding love. If you don’t have one, cultivate it.
10. Listen to them talk about themselves.
If you really want someone to love you, listen to them talk about themselves. People enjoy talking about themselves, and research has proven this. So, simply ask them questions about themselves, and you will definitely grab their interest.
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