Success doesn’t come easy, it takes hard work. Those who are successful, women especially, have to work day in and day out to reach the level they are at.
And while you may think it was some major trait or major behavior that created their success, success can be found in the smallest habits. The small, seemingly meaningless behaviors of some of the most successful women in the world pay off in big rewards.
Of course, you can’t become successful overnight. However, you can align yourself with the successful people that inspire you the most, and who knows what could happen? At the very least, you might become the successful woman you have always aspired to be.
1. They play up their strengths.
Everyone has strengths and everyone has weaknesses. If you sat around worried about your weaknesses all the time while overlooking your strengths, you’d end up in bad shape. And if you are looking to find success, start where you are strong and grow from there. Successful women start where they are strong and grow from there. To help identify your own strengths, consider reading “StrengthsFinder 2.0 by Tom Rath“, which provides an access code for an online strengths assessment.
2. They are ambitious.
Successful women have a thirst for success. They know what they want, they figure out how to accomplish it, and then they set out to achieve. When they are working towards their goals, they don’t let anything stand in their way. They know what they want and they figure out how to get it. For inspiration on fueling your own ambition, “Lean In: Women, Work, and the Will to Lead” by Sheryl Sandberg is a great resource that discusses leadership and personal growth.
3. They are a student of life.
Successful women understand that they will never reach a point in which they know everything. They understand that sometimes they are wrong, and they accept that as an opportunity to learn. The most successful women in life never stop learning and remain a student of life.
4. They don’t stand down in the face of an obstacle.
When faced with a major obstacle, most people would stand down, especially if the obstacle is perceived as too difficult. However, successful women look at obstacles as opportunities to learn and then adjust their plans to overcome the obstacle. “Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance” by Angela Duckworth explores how perseverance and passion can lead to long-term success.
5. They are strong-minded.
Successful women have strong minds. They stand firm on their beliefs and refuse to negotiate when it comes to their journey. If they believe in something, they will stand by it at whatever cost.
6. They have integrity.
No matter who is looking, or what the circumstances are, successful women remain true to their integrity. They stand firm on their morals, and they stand firm in their beliefs. They are who they say they are, nothing less and nothing more. And there’s a lot to be said for that.
7. They have goals.
Successful women are clear on their goals. They know what they want to accomplish, and they break larger goals up into smaller ones. By doing this, they can steadily move their way towards their intended target.
8. They believe in themselves.
To accomplish anything, you have to believe in yourself. Successful women realize that, and they know what they are capable of. They are confident in themselves, and this confidence allows them to make risky decisions that pay off big.
9. They think outside the box.
Successful women don’t subscribe to the notion that everything is cut and dry. Instead, they are always looking for new solutions and new perspectives. Because of that, they can come up with out-of-the-box ideas that set them apart. “Thinking, Fast and Slow” by Daniel Kahneman provides insights into two different ways of thinking that influence decision-making.
10. They are emotionally intelligent.
Successful women understand their emotions and know how to manage them. They don’t react intensely to their emotions or hold them in until they burst. They remain calm and collected and take care of what needs to be taken care of.
11. They understand the need for boundaries.
Many people underestimate the importance of boundaries. Without boundaries, we would all end up run over, completely exhausted and with nothing accomplished. Successful women realize this, and they stand firm in their boundaries.
12. They put in their time.
Success doesn’t happen overnight. The women that become successful work diligently and put in their time and effort to get to where they are. Success is not for those who would rather put in minimal effort.
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