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Have you ever felt like you just didn’t know what you were doing when it came to love? It is almost like no matter what you try nothing ever works out right.

Romance and love are two very complicated and confusing things. When it comes to getting a guy to fall for you, you have to do several things that most people forget are actually important. There are ways to make men fall for you but chances are you’re not doing those things at all.

Below I am going to go over some of the best tips I have learned throughout the years. While some are things you might think you do, you probably don’t do them the way you should. If you do these things, you will be able to get a man to fall for you without a problem. You are worth a lot more than you realize. Psychologists suggest all of these things, they will not only benefit you in your walk of love but also your walk of life.

7 Ways to Make A Man Fall For You:

1. Make eye contact.

This lets him know you are interested in what he is saying or just him in general. Eye contact is important, even if you’re a bit shy it can make a huge difference. Making eye contact shows you are a confident individual.

2. Be a good listener, always.

Listen to the things he has to say and don’t let things go in one ear and out the other. If you are really bored with the things he has to say, should you be wasting time on him in the first place? You have to find some kind of common ground and build from there.

3. Be yourself no matter what.

Don’t try to be someone you are not. Be who you are and true to yourself no matter what. If he likes you for you, he will stick around. You don’t want someone getting into a relationship with you thinking you are a completely different person than you really are, do you?

4. Take care of yourself and look your best.

Self-care is so important! While you don’t have to look like a supermodel 24/7 do try and take care of yourself. Looking your best can mean many different things to many different people.

5. Don’t be afraid to ask questions.

Do not hesitate to ask questions, because sometimes questions need to be asked. This allows you to get to know him more and shows him that you have a genuine interest in him.

6. Do things that make you happy.

Don’t force yourself to be interested in things you aren’t interested in or to squash your current hobbies for fear of looking lame. Do things that make you happy and show him that side of yourself. Show him the things you are passionate about.

7. Find things you have in common.

Figure out the things you have in common and go from there. The more you have in common the more you have to talk about. If you have nothing in common chances are things won’t work well.

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