While a lot of people are afraid of seeing the end of things, those who are able to accept that from endings come new beginnings fear virtually nothing. Moving forward into the unknown might seem confusing but it is always better than remaining stuck in the past.
No matter who you are or what you’re doing, there will come a time when everything will end. Life ends, dreams end, we lose jobs, we lose friends, and above all else, we have to be able to come to terms with this. The only thing in this world that is truly constant is change, change cannot be avoided and must happen in one form or another.
If you are someone who struggles with the fact that all things in this world will inevitably end someday, you need to work towards finding ways to accept it. The more you grow as a person the closer to acceptance you will become and from there the following improvements will present themselves to you. There is nothing wrong with coming to terms with the truth, you will allow yourself more freedom than you could ever imagine.
7 Improvements That Will Come Forth Once You Realize Everything In Life Ends Sooner Or Later:
1. You value your own opinion more.
When you really come to terms with the fact that nothing is going to last forever you stop caring about the things people around you say as much, especially those you don’t want much to do with anyway. Normally you would obsess over the criticism that you were being given but now you see that at the end of the day you’re the one who lives your life. No one else’s opinion should hold more weight over the things you do than your own.
2. You realize how little time we truly have.
Everything comes to an end at some point and years fly by much quicker than most of us stop to realize. When you come to terms with death and everything else in that regard you really begin to see how little time we have on this planet. The days sweep right through and if you blink too quickly they will all be gone before you know it.
3. You start actually chasing your dreams.
Realizing that things are not what you would hope for them to really builds the perfect situation for you to begin chasing the things you’ve always dreamed of. You start putting yourself out there more and going the extra mile to make achievements. Time is not something we have on our side and you know it now more than ever.
4. You learn to appreciate those around you more.
The people around you will not be with you forever, you have to show them the kindness they deserve while you are able to. Life is so short and fragile. What if tomorrow you woke up and your significant other wasn’t there by your side? Could you honestly say you appreciated them to the fullest extent? You’ll think about these things a lot once you’ve really accepted that endings are far more prominent than they should be.
5. You become more willing to put yourself out there.
As we begin to see the world for what it truly is we become more willing to do the things we’ve always wanted to do. You may finally go traveling or pick up a hobby you’d been thinking about. While it might not seem like much, these memories are all you’ll have left once most others have long since passed.
6. You say what you need to say instead of holding back.
You now say the things you feel need to be said. You don’t hold off on saying you love the people around you and you don’t close yourself off anymore. You make sure that your intentions are met properly.
7. You choose to be the version of yourself that you want to be.
When we’re where we need to be in life we begin to grow into who we knew all along we could have been and were meant to be. This is a marvelous thing and not something everyone is capable of accomplishing. If you are growing, you are doing more than most.