While sometimes it might be a bit embarrassing or they might come across as being too rude at times, your blunt friends are probably the best ones you have. They are unfiltered in a way that makes it easier for them to be real with you.
Your blunt friends might criticize you a little more than most other people but they also don’t play around in any kind of bullshit. They do not sugar coat things and while they might come across as a bit cold here and there, they really care about you. Appreciating these kinds of friends properly is important, without them we wouldn’t get very far.
Your blunt friends are the ‘most real’ and as time passes you will begin to see that. Authentic people in this day and age are hard to find so hang onto them while you can. They aren’t going to try and change you and are going to accept you for who you are on a level that other people would never be capable of.
Below you will find a list of reasons why you should appreciate your blunt and unfiltered friends as they are rather than trying to cap off their individuality. While it can be a bit much here and there overall it does far more for you than you realize. These people will always fit into this puzzle of your life and you need to be willing to realize that.
12 Reasons Why You Should Always Appreciate Your Blunt And Unfiltered Friends:
1. You can always count on them when it really matters.
No matter what they always come through. You don’t have to wait around for them or wonder if they’re going to come when you call asking for them in the middle of the night. They are right there when you need them even if they’re complaining a bit during the process itself.
2. They do not hesitate to tell people what’s on their minds.
Whether you want to know what’s going on around you or not they’re going to make sure you become aware. They make sure to share the things on their minds and if you’re doing something you shouldn’t be doing they’re going to make that clear to you. While at the end of the day they’re not going to force you to do or not do something but they will be honest with you on their thoughts about it overall.
3. They are almost always willing to stand up for you and those who matter to them.
They are the kinds of people who do not let others talk shit about their friends. If they’re out and about and they hear someone saying something bad about you they will confront them. You can trust them above all else and know that they wouldn’t go behind your back. They are the kinds of friends you can really count on even if they’re a bit odd.
4. They do not hide from change.
These kinds of people are open and usually embrace change quite freely. They allow things to happen as they see fit and when a new opportunity comes forth they take it. They don’t let the past define them and also are not willing to be too hard on themselves in regard to the future.
5. They always take care of themselves.
Blunt people are very willing to take care of themselves from a very young age. They tend to really go out of their way to make sure they’re holding their own. You won’t find them sitting back and letting things just happen, they refuse to waste away.
6. They love thinking outside of the box.
These kinds of people are very smart and unique in their own ways. They tend to come up with some of the most interesting things to do and say. If a solution needs to be found they will find one and it will be one that no one else would have ever been able to come up with.
7. They might seem overprotective but they just want you to be happy.
They really do their best to keep the people they care about safe. They might be a bit rude from time to time but overall they want you to be happy. They are here for you when no one else is and always looking out for you and your well-being.
8. They’re still able to be serious and ‘cut the crap’ when needed.
While it might seem like they joke around a lot or are constantly playing games, they know when to be serious. You can go to them for advice or guidance when needed. They while living life unfiltered are also willing to sit back and listen when it is necessary.
9. They know what they want in this life.
They don’t waste time waiting around on things to happen for them, they make them happen. They know where they’re headed and what they want. This puts them pretty far ahead of the game.
10. They don’t care what other people have to say about them.
These kinds of people just don’t care about the opinions of others when it comes to themselves. People can say whatever about them and they won’t bat an eye. It’s only when they bring up someone this kind of person cares about that they become a bit agitated and from there they truly hold their own.
11. They know how to have fun.
These people are very interesting in how they move through this world. While they are serious sometimes and always getting things done they do know how to have fun. They do a lot and still find time to be free themselves. You’d be surprised by the number of hobbies this kind of person tends to have.
12. They don’t judge you based on how you look.
Blunt people don’t usually judge other people. They know that being unique is a good thing and that standing out is important. They in many ways resonate with those who are not necessarily normal. You won’t have to ever wonder whether or not they’re judging you.
Sources:
https://www.chalenejohnson.com/friends-that-lift-you-up-push-you-to-be-more/
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/friendship-observation/201506/friendship-matters