We are all compatible with someone else in some way. Two people can have a lot more in common than you think and all the while have virtually nothing in common at all.
Chemistry works in mysterious ways. Some people who come from completely different backgrounds are compelled to be with one another. While they have nothing in common on the outside, on the inside, their souls are as one. This is something you cannot fight.
Below you will find a list of signs that you may be experiencing this mind-blowing chemistry with someone in your life. That being said, when you have real chemistry with someone you will know. Everything will make sense to you all the while nothing will.
14 Signs You Have Mind-blowing Chemistry With Someone:
1. Communication Skills
If you cannot communicate with one another then the relationship is not worth pursuing. You have to be able to talk your problems through. Fighting all the time is not good for anyone.
2. Common Interests
You have to have some things in common even if they are small things. This helps you to build the foundation for something special. How much do you two have in common?
3. Support For One Another
You support this person and this person supports you. You are never going through things alone. He or she is always there for you.
4. You Are Both Good Listeners
You can listen to one another when the other needs to be heard. You do not struggle with being a shoulder to cry on from time to time. Emotional support is important in a relationship. If you are supporting one another emotionally the chemistry is definitely there.
5. Respect For One Another
You cannot have a relationship without respect. If someone respects you there is chemistry present on some level. That being said, you have to give the respect you receive.
6. Building Together
If you are already working together to build something then you know chemistry is present. Building together is essential in any and all relationships. If you don’t get along well enough to make a life together you don’t need to be together.
7. Consistency
Being consistent with one another is a good sign you are both on the same page. If the person you are with is not consistent then they most likely don’t value your time. You cannot have chemistry if you don’t value one another in all manners.
8. You Trust Each Other
Sure, you can have chemistry without trust but it isn’t worth your time. Real chemistry involves a lot of trust. Don’t let lust be confused for something more.
9. You Both Are Honest
Being honest is crucial for us all. If someone is honest with you and you want to be and are honest with them as well. You have something special.
10. You Both Have Freedom
Chemistry isn’t all about attraction. Sometimes it has to do with being aware you are both still two people. That sometimes you will need your space.
11. You Both Commit
When you have a connection strong enough you will both want to commit. If one is not willing to commit to the other the chemistry is not as real as you want it to be. Commitment is not negotiable.
12. You Care For One Another
Chemistry involves a lot of emotion. If you truly care for this person, and they care for you, something special is happening. Love is a very real thing and you may very well be experiencing it. That being said, you can care for someone that you do not love.
13. Sharing Experiences
When you share chemistry with someone you also share experiences. You want to be there for the good times and make it through the bad. This attraction doesn’t dwindle just cause a rough patch has come up.
14. You Are Happy Together
Without happiness you have nothing. If your relationship together is making you miserable then your spark isn’t what you thought it was. There are two kinds of sparks the spark of lust and the spark of love. People often confuse one for the other.
If you have all of these things then you truly have mind-blowing chemistry. You and this person understand one another on a level most people never get to experience. This is all too amazing to let pass you by.