When it comes to love don’t settle for someone who refuses to see you for who you are. Just because someone promises you the world doesn’t mean they’re going to deliver.
You deserve to be with someone who sees you for who you truly are and appreciates every moment they get to spend with you. Someone that loves all of your flaws and sticks with you through the mistakes you make. While it might feel sometimes like you’re fighting a losing batting if you and your partner are on the same page and both willing to grow together, you’re with someone who will cherish you properly.
Don’t waste your time with someone who is constantly trying to change you or make you out to be someone you’re not. Those people don’t actually care about you at all. They just want to fit you into their little boxes and make you stay there for as long as they can and honestly, in the end, you’ll see that those kinds of people are toxic in every sense of the word.
The person who deserves to be by your side forever will be someone that shows you that whether you’re both surrounded by nice things or struggling with nothing, you’re doing it together and you have one another entirely. This person will do all he or she can to make you feel loved and won’t abandon you when the rest of the world turns against you.
He or she will see the good in you when even you cannot see it anymore. They will be vulnerable with you and trust you in all ways possible. You will never have to question their intentions and the more you get to know them the more comfortable you will become in their presence. The person who is worth your time and efforts will prove to you that you’re not the only one trying to make things work. You will see them putting forth efforts and spending time to go the extra mile for you.
You deserve this person because this person deserves you. The two of you are meant to be together and if you never find one another in this world things will not play out as they should. This person is the one person who will understand you when no one else is capable of such. He or she will be your shoulder to cry on and your crutch to stand when you’re weak. You will be able to call on this person whenever you need them and they will be able to do the same with you.
Don’t waste your efforts on someone who refuses to spend time with you or who only comes around when they need something. Give your soul and your heart to someone who is willing to do the same in return with you. Someone who is able to let his or her strong side come out when you need them the most and only accept the kind of love that helps you become the best version of yourself.