Anger is an intense and often destructive emotion in response to the situations around us, from something as small as an annoying younger brother to something as major as racism and discrimination. While we certainly do have some choice in how we respond to the world, each of us possesses our own natural reactions and responses.
While some people will respond in a very subtle manner, muttering under our breath, holding a grudge or simply avoiding someone altogether, it is important to know that the destructive nature of this emotion can have a very serious impact on the world. Look, for example, at the incidents of violence that occur around us on a daily basis. Something as simple as road rage can be boiled down to the anger of one individual lashing out at another, causing a downward spiral. It is only by recognizing and identifying our personal reaction that we can then take control of our response, avoiding any potential long-term consequences.
How do you respond when someone angers you? Have you ever taken a step back to consider the way that you naturally react? Do you lash out, expressing your anger to the world, or do you internalize it, stewing on the situation for the hours, days and weeks to come? Do you focus your anger in a positive way, allowing it to motivate you and drive you towards change?
How do you react when you’re mad? Here’s what your zodiac sign has to say:
Aries (Mar 21 – Apr 19)
You don’t generally respond to life’s smaller frustrations, reserving your reactions for the bigger situations and drama in life. However, if someone does cross that line and trigger your temper it’s important to note that you don’t take anger and frustration lightly. A ticking time bomb, you’re highly vindictive and when you lash out, it is with the purpose of creating as much destruction as humanly possible. People WILL feel your wrath!
Taurus (Apr 20 – May 20)
It takes a lot to push you over the top. Strong, solid and dependable, you are more than prepared to shoulder A LOT of responsibility and frustration in this world without even blinking an eye. However, there will come a day when it all adds up to more than you can handle and the proverbial ‘straw that broke the camel’s back’ will send you flying over the edge. At this point, all I can say is watch out!
Gemini (May 21 – Jun 20)
If someone’s going to confront you or try to put the blame on you, watch out. You’re not about to stand for that! You pack a powerful punch, and you’re not afraid to unleash the beast! The biggest tool in your toolbelt? The truth – When all is said and done you will use it to your advantage, exposing people’s secrets or throwing the truth in their face at every chance possible in order to ensure that you are going to get your way and leave the most destruction in your wake. People are going to regret the day they crossed you…
Cancer (Jun 21 – Jul 22)
Friends and family are aware that your overly sensitive nature will cause you to react to even the smallest situations, but you need to take some responsibility for your actions. Lashing out at friends and family simply because someone looked at you the wrong way certainly isn’t the most appropriate way to handle things. You need to practice focused breathing, calming yourself down in order to allow yourself to handle situations in a more constructive way.
Leo (Jul 23 – Aug 22)
There isn’t much that can push you to truly react in a negative or overly emotional way, simply because you feel like you are above it. You don’t have to lash out at someone to convince them to come around to your way of thinking because, at the end of the day, everyone knows that you’re always right anyway, right? If, however, you feel like you need to address something, you will handle it so quickly and with such force that it’s like squashing a bug. It’s done before anyone can even blink.
Virgo (Aug 23 – Sept 22)
You can take A LOT of drama directed your way without reacting, determined not to waste your time on meaningless arguments or disagreements. However, if someone pushes you too far, watch out. You will eventually hit a breaking point, causing you to lash out at anyone and everyone around you. Some of this anger may end up directed at the person responsible, but there are going to be a lot of others caught in the crossfire. Take a deep breath and try to avoid this type of overreaction.
Libra (Sept 23 – Oct 22)
As someone who has spent your whole life trying to create peace and balance in the world, the idea of getting angry and expressing your anger may seem counterproductive at times. However, you also realize that anger has been the driving force behind many of your more ambitious efforts, so you don’t shy away from acknowledging this emotion in your own life. Just make sure you keep it focused on good!
Scorpio (Oct 23 – Nov 21)
Intense and over the top, when you’re upset Scorpio, the whole world is going to know it! You have no issues with stepping on the toes of those around you, as long as you are able to get your point across. You do take some enjoyment out of upsetting the peace and creating a stir, so try not to fall into the trap of creating drama just to create drama. There are so many better ways to use your time and energy!
Sagittarius (Nov 22 – Dec 21)
Incredibly positive and optimistic, you hate that negative feelings like anger even exist. Rather than engaging in this way of thinking, you simply refuse to acknowledge its existence. If someone tries to push your buttons and force a reaction you don’t just walk away, you disappear entirely, returning only when you feel confident that the potential problem is gone or has been addressed. You may want to consider, however, that some situations are going to require your attention, even if it’s uncomfortable.
Capricorn (Dec 22 – Jan 19)
Choosing to view the world through your black and white lens of data, facts, and truth, you view all emotions as a weakness that you can’t afford to engage in, and anger is no exception. This isn’t to say that you don’t experience feelings of anger at times in life, you just don’t see the point in acting on it. Just be careful not to hold onto these feelings as they can fester and create an incredibly toxic and negative energy long term.
Aquarius (Jan 20 – Feb 18)
You have no problem admitting when you have done something wrong, taking responsibility for your actions and apologizing to those that you may have hurt, and you expect the same from those around you. You have no interest in drama or over the top emotions, and if someone continues to try to push your buttons you will simply walk away, refusing to give the reaction you know that they are trying to create. You’ve got no energy for or interest in that negativity in life.
Pisces (Feb 19 – Mar 20)
You will go out of your way to avoid conflict at all costs, even if that means admitting to and apologizing for something that you never did, to begin with. You see this as a small sacrifice to pay in order to avoid any potential arguments down the road. Unfortunately, avoidance isn’t always going to work and there will come a day that you have to face the fact that someone has angered you. Try to remind yourself that not all anger is bad, it depends on how you use it.