We all have a basic (sun sign) ‘zodiac sign,’ but have you ever looked into your Chinese zodiac sign? Our Chinese zodiac sign is more-so an animal associated with our birth year and it can really tell us a lot about who we are.
It is one of many Chinese fortune prediction methods and runs far deeper than many people realize. People born to certain animal years are believed to have attributes of that animal. This is both good and bad depending on the person and who they are with. Sometimes our traits make finding real love hard but it is something we can all work through.
If you are interested in figuring out why you might be horrible with relationships take a look below. Just look for your birth year and that should be your sign. While some of these things will be hard to swallow, we can learn from all of them.
(2008, 1996, 1984, 1972, 1960)
If you were born in the year of the rat you struggle with picking the right partners. You tend to find yourself stuck with those who only want to hook up. You keep putting yourself out there but to those who don’t deserve your time. You really need to figure out what is wrong with the kinds of people you are going for and try something new.
(2009, 1997, 1985, 1973, 1961)
You put too much into things before the other person is ready. You are always trying to dive right in rather than taking the time to get to know one another first. You should try to chill out and take a step back. Taking things slow is not a bad thing.
(2010, 1998, 1986, 1974, 1962)
You always let your mind wander. You are constantly seeing the worst possible outcome in every situation. This causes you to doubt the person you are with and it gives insecurity a home in your relationship. This is a seed you continue to plant that damns your connections with those you love.
(2011, 1999, 1987, 1975, 1963)
You are too hung up on the past. You let an ex-lover really scar you within. You don’t want to be with him or her but you do let the emotions associated with that relationship affect your current relationship. When it comes to this kind of thing you just need to work through your past so that you can actually have a future.
(2012, 2000, 1988, 1976, 1964)
You aren’t one to make the first move. You tend to freeze up when it comes down to real communication. As a dragon feel the need to keep yourself hidden. How would you ever be able to find love if you were locked away from the rest of the world?
(2013, 2001, 1989, 1977, 1965)
You don’t realize how amazing you are. You let terrible toxic people into your life all too often. You push away those who care and hold close those who don’t you need to learn how to read between the lines. Just because it seems like someone has good intentions doesn’t mean that they really do.
(2014, 2002, 1990, 1978, 1966)
You let people hurt you time and time again. You don’t know how to cut them out of your life. You keep giving second chances and it takes a serious toll on you. Stop being a doormat.
(2015, 2003, 1991, 1979, 1967)
You don’t respect yourself enough. You keep putting a bad image of yourself in your mind and because of this others don’t see you for who you truly are. You bad habits really get in the way of you and true love. Get your shit together and see where you end up.
(2016, 2004, 1992, 1980, 1968)
You are asking for too much. You want someone who is literally perfect and perfect does not exist in this world. You refuse to look past the flaws you see in others even when they are looking past yours. You need to take a long hard look in the mirror.
( 2017, 2005, 1993, 1981, 1969)
You’re too focused on yourself to be with someone who really has an emotional attachment. You might think you want a relationship but that’s not true. You like the convenience but the truth is you are not capable of truly committing. Someone would have to be truly amazing to get you to finally be loyal.
(2006, 1994, 1982, 1970)
You just give too much of yourself. You are always letting people treat you like shit. You wait on them hand and foot and they aren’t grateful but yet you stay. You need to learn how to stand up for yourself. You deserve so much better than you have had in the past.
(2019, 2007, 1995, 1983, 1971)
You take too many things to heart. You let people say and do things to you that others would not. You need to find your voice and speak out. You are an amazing person that deserves someone who will stand beside you forever.