Most people base how attractive you are on looks, but to be honest, there is a lot more to it than that! The way you meet someone, the way they speak, and so much more goes into whether or not you find them attractive right off the bat.
Some people are just much more ‘magnetic’ than others and there are lots of reasons for that. Below I am going to go over some of the things that make a person attractive from a psychological aspect. These are, for the most part, things you might never even think about.
6 Ways to Make Yourself More Attractive:
If your body language is too closed off and blunt, others are not going to be as drawn to you. You need to open up and let people in. Make eye contact, don’t cross your arms or run to your cell phone because you feel awkward. These things will make a huge difference.
The first thirty seconds when you meet someone make a huge difference in how they think about you. While it might seem a bit judgy, this is mostly something that happens within our subconscious. Speak up, stand tall, don’t hesitate; making a good first impression is important.
3. Don’t take yourself too seriously.
Don’t cut up too much but also don’t be too serious. If you are too serious people will think you don’t like them. When someone is willing to cut up a little bit it instantly opens up room for a person to like them at least on a small level. It makes people want to talk to you more.
The way you take care of yourself is everything to the people around you. Personal hygiene is crucial when it comes to attraction. Think about it! Do you like to stand next to someone who has a rough smell? Probably not! Take care of yourself physically, mentally and in all other ways and you will go far.
5. Don’t be boring, I know, easier said than done.
It might not be as easy as it sound, but having something about you that says “interesting” is important. Don’t tell someone your whole life story but also don’t worry about what you say as much. Just be yourself and see where things go.
6. Pay attention to the person you are speaking to.
Pay attention to the person you are speaking to! Don’t be distracted or rude, put DOWN your cell phone! People like when others are paying attention to them, because it makes them feel special. If you were trying to talk to someone and they couldn’t make eye contact, how would you feel?